help me with this 36 year old. please

[bosox199]

I'm 21 years old an a friend of the family who is 36 and extremely good looking recently got in a divorce. I received a text from her about inviting girls I know to a party where they were selling purses. I didnt have her number and asked who it was. She replied a milf. We got talking and I told her that ive wanted to get with her for years. She showed interest, like saying sexual comments back, but ended up saying if I was younger I would be all over your stuff. She said we cant text as much because shes scared, but I know there is interest there. How can I approach it and what could i say or do. It was be the ultimate fantasy.

[lynda]

Better stay away until that divorce is finished...

[shortcake]

She seems a little scared because someone younger finds her attractive. If your divorce isn't amicable there is pressure there.

[bayridgebabe]

Lynda 'm a little confused here I thought he said SHE was divorced but then he said something about a MILF (OMG how I hate that expression) Mother I'd like to F**K. anyway now I'm not sure if he meant the divorcee or someone else. Boxsox199 can u plz explain who you were referring to so we can give you the proper advice.

[bosox199]

the 36 year old who i find attractive. she's going through a divorce. its not official yet

[houstoncougar]

a married woman and a friend of the family who would be all over you if you were younger than 21? Sounds like her name might be TROUBLE think I might be right about that one mister?

[lynda]

bosox199, she is under a lot of pressure right now and feeling very alone with going through a divorce and I am with CJ; MILF is disrespectful and I personally hate that also. If you have never had an age gap relationship of any sorts it is scary. You are 21 and she wants someone younger? Sounds like it could be just a sexual thing for the both of you.

[wetnwild]

I believe what he meant was that SHE said "if *I* were younger I would be all over your stuff". Meaning, if SHE were younger. Not that she is wanting somenoe younger than him. I also believe that she called herself a milf. He asked who it was texting him and she replied "a milf". Am I right bosox? (btw, your name makes me think of botox, lol!!)

Anyway, I think her fear may also be due to the fact that she is a friend of the family. I would say, try befriending her first, let the divorce get finalized, and give it a little time. Don't rush things.

[bosox199]

wetnwild you are very smart everything you said was right.. maybe i should proof read next time

[kauffman]

offer to take her out for a meal somewhere secluded

she may welcome the break from the grind of her failing marriage. a chance to get away

just make your honest intentions clear to her first