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mitch · #1 (**permalink**) 01-22-2008, 05:58 AM

do i always get the same response from older women? every older woman ive ever approached acts as if im a 12 yr old boy, when yet most of the time i have more to my name than her last husband.

it just seems unfair that most older women ive met never give me a chance.

any constructive ideas/comments?

#2 (**permalink**) 01-22-2008, 06:52 AM

Mitch....without seeing your profile, it's going to be hard for any of us to offer you any helpful answers. What is your screen name so we can take a peek?

tarni · #3 (**permalink**) 01-22-2008, 04:48 PM

Without seeing your profile, i would say that you are not meeting the right women. Someone will take you for exactly who you are, perhaps do some soul searching of your own and really know who you are and what you want - then seek out that particular person. Leave the rest in the dust...

mitch · #4 (**permalink**) 01-22-2008, 11:20 PM

thanks for the replies, and my profile name is bigjohnson88

im sorry, im new here i guess i figured yall could just click on my name and it would take ya there hehe

i tried to upload a pic, im not really sure if it worked :/

well would love to hear some more from you lovely ladies!

ttyl,
~Mitch

loungecat · #5 (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 02:23 AM

First thing I would do is change your screen name. Big Johnson? Come on man you can be more creative than that. I wouldn't refer to your cock any where in your profile, thats just me. Now I will say just about every woman you send a message out to is going to look at your profile first. Make it light and happy. If you can make a girl laugh then you are half way there. If you met an attractive lady of any age out in public, would you immediately tell them you just want some one to cuddle with? Probably not because you only get one chance to make a first impression and the girl isn't in her comfort zone yet. Don't get me wrong, nothing wrong with looking for that, just don't bring it up until you have built repore with them.

loungecat · #6 (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 05:36 AM

Here is something I came up with. Try to imagine your selling a car in a local paper or online. You want to sell the car so you would want to make an ad that would sound attractive to potential buyers. Sell the car my man. Basic human nature...Men are the protectors and providers. Show direction and confidence in your profile, but be careful not to sound arrogant. Now every one else, I was only referring to human psychology and basic human nature so please do not be offended by any thing I said in regards to the protector provider bit. Just my opinion (yea obviously).

tarni · #7 (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 04:33 PM

Yes, most women like the cuddle thing but I have been duped by that, too, so I don't fall for that line anymore. Be honest! That is the key.

mitch · #8 (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 06:20 PM

oh im sorry i didnt mean to offend you, but my last name is johnson lol and as i mentioned before, im fairly big (like me not talking about my cock lol)

my screen name refers to my last name, not my dick >_>

mitch · #9 (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 06:22 PM

and tarni, i am being honest, i do enjoy just watching a movie and cuddling its something i dont tell many people in person

tarni · #10 (**permalink**) 01-23-2008, 06:28 PM

I was not supposing you were being otherwise. I had a guy say that cuddling thing to me and when we did finally meet, he basically forced himself on me because he got excited while cuddling. I personally do not believe that a guy can nor will stop at just cuddling.