why...

[mitch]

do i always get the same response from older women? every older woman ive ever approached acts as if im a 12 yr old boy, when yet most of the time i have more to my name than her last husband.

it just seems unfair that most older women ive met never give me a chance.

any constructive ideas/comments?

Mitch....without seeing your profile, it's going to be hard for any of us to offer you any helpful answers. What is your screen name so we can take a peek?

[mitch]

thanks for the replies, and my profile name is bigjohnson88

im sorry, im new here i guess i figured yall could just click on my name and it would take ya there hehe

i tried to upload a pic, im not really sure if it worked :/

well would love to hear some more from you lovely ladies!

ttyl,
~Mitch

First thing I would do is change your screen name. Big Johnson? Come on man you can be more creative than that. I wouldn't refer to your cock any where in your profile, thats just me. Now I will say just about every woman you send a message out to is going to look at your profile first. Make it light and happy. If you can make a girl laugh then you are half way there. If you met an attractive lady of any age out in public, would you immediately tell them you just want some one to cuddle with? Probably not because you only get one chance to make a first impression and the girl isn't in her comfort zone yet. Don't get me wrong, nothing wrong with looking for that, just don't bring it up until you have built repore with them.

Here is something I came up with. Try to imagine your selling a car in a local paper or online. You want to sell the car so you would want to make an ad that would sound attractive to potential buyers. Sell the car my man. Basic human nature...Men are the protectors and providers. Show direction and confidence in your profile, but be careful not to sound arrogant. Now every one else, I was only referring to human psychology and basic human nature so please do not be offended by any thing I said in regards to the protector provider bit. Just my opinion (yea obviously).

[mitch]

oh im sorry i didnt mean to offend you, but my last name is johnson lol and as i mentioned before, im fairly big (like me not talking about my cock lol)

my screen name refers to my last name, not my dick >_>

[mitch]

and tarni, i am being honest, i do enjoy just watching a movie and cuddling its something i dont tell many people in person

My bad but you have to admit that is kinda funny. I guess that means I am perv right? HAHAHAHA. Hey some guys like to cuddle (I do but wont admit it because its against man law LOL). Its all about good communication.

[misterfresh]

idk just be ur self, if the lady doesnt show any interest **** em then, just move to the next one, there r billions of chances for u

[mitch]

thanks for the replies, i really appreciate it!

and i have good and bad news, i took some of yall's advice and started talking with a co-worker of mine, she just turned 56, and i will be 20 this coming july. only problem is, i think she may have an interest in me, and i told her how i felt, but it seems like she is afraid of what other people will think. She told me shes had younger guys before and it didnt turn out well, and that i would be the youngest... i asked her to just consider a relationship, and she said she would, but im not sure if she really took me seriously.

Any ideas?