why...

[mitch]

Yeah thats very nice of you tarni and its true, i can cuddle without feeling the need to ruin it

This is just conversation and my opinions and I would like everyones take on this. In fact I will start a new thread. Please come read and leave me your thoughts.

[mitch]

it wouldnt be easy i agree, especially if im very attracted to her. but it would make it so much more enjoyable when we finally do go all the way. it would be just that much more special. But yeah, it would not be easy especially how you put it tarni =p

Without seeing your profile i would say nothing properly but i just want to say that u should ask yourself what u want and what is right for u......

[trophywife4fun]

At 20 you are the perfect age in my opinion... I'd never date a Mitch. That's my husbands name. Sorry.

[airmanmechanic]

Originally Posted by tarni

I personally do not believe that a guy can nor will stop at just cuddling.

Most guys can't, not all guys, most.

[moopy]

what?
naw...
cuddling is the pwningest...
seckz is fun and everything but cuddling is something altogether different...
seckz and cuddling though usually related do not always go together...
cuddling is a different kind of pleasure altogether...
moopy has no issue stopping at cuddling...
cuz nothing else should be getting started if that's what she's going for and unless the guy has like...no skills at all, he can tell when this is...
lul x.x i didnt see that the post was 3 pages long...
was replying to the end of the first page lawl...
newb power...

[lioninthecity]

I don't think Cougars are interested in high schoolers, even with "skillz" although there are some exceptions that do eventually get jailed.

[sbrdbnt]

Originally Posted by mitch

and i have good and bad news, i took some of yall's advice and started talking with a co-worker of mine, she just turned 56, and i will be 20 this coming july. only problem is, i think she may have an interest in me, and i told her how i felt, but it seems like she is afraid of what other people will think. She told me shes had younger guys before and it didnt turn out well, and that i would be the youngest... i asked her to just consider a relationship, and she said she would, but im not sure if she really took me seriously.

Any ideas?

Here's hoping that things went well for ya.

Anyway, my comment to add to this is that some cougars are afraid of what others might think, many don't have those reservations.

In my case, she had no kids, and her parents had passed away. She wasn't particularly close to her siblings, so only had her friends and co-workers as people she associated with. So, to her, there wasn't anyone around her that would've had an issue with who she dated, so she freely reveled in it, although she did not want to meet my family

At the time, we were only casually dating, which turned into a friends with benefits, so I didn't mind if she didn't want to be known to my family. Near the end of our one month involvement though, she had developed quite the emotional attachment (and started making demands that I wasn't able to fulfill). She probably wanted to become more serious as a couple, and I didn't really know if her view on not meeting my family had changed, but if I'm going to be in a serious relationship with someone, they will have to eventually meet my family.