How would I become friends with a older lady

[misterfresh]

...and im only 19....

Its all in your confidence my man. Walk into a room and smile like you are happy to be there. When talking to a lady of any age you have to at first make them feel comfortable talking to you. If you want the girl you will have to distinguish your self from every one else. This can be done by not doing what every one else is doing. Second, don't ever use a line cause lines make people feel uncomfortable. Easiest way to start a conversation, ask a girl for her opinion (preferably not about religion or politics). Once you have got her talking then just be normal and carry on a conversation. There is more but I think you get the idea. Remember that 90% of it is in your head. Don't ever come off as clingy or needy cause that is a sure fire way to drive a lady in the opposite direction. Really all I am telling you is the basics of social dynamics. Opinions?

[misterfresh]

yea i got a great job and a nice townhouse and a nice car...so automatically im not a loser like most guys my age, i think im doin pretty good now with older ladies now

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U have to talk with her politely and help and care for her

U should care and help for her in any trouble and u have to be a niche person and be more humble before her.

[nysemt346543]

U should care and help for her in any trouble and u have to be a niche person and be more humble before her.

adam007 your right on bro i got me a older women friend she is my hotty and
that what you got to do is the truth is be they support and not up they a@#

I have a close friend at work, a cool older lady. Plenty of online friends
from various corners of the country, but I guess we're not counting those. ...
You need to become friends with a girl first before you can do anything else.
As I recall, you like riding bicycles, don't you? ... and snow skiing?