How do you know when an older women is interested in you

[seansc]

i am a pretty good looking guy and usually catch the eye of older women but sometimes its really hard to tell if i should go up and talk to an older woman. I have before and everything has turned out great but i just want to ask all the cougars on here, what do you do when your trying to get a younger man to come and talk to you?

You might watch for the very same signals you'd be looking for in any woman. The way she glances your way....if she looks away as she catches your eye, she may or may not be interested. But if she looks AGAIN....you definitely have her interest. Is she playing with her hair or adjusting her posture? More body language signals that she is preening for the mating dance. Other than that, wow.....looks like you got it covered and you should be giving the other guys here tips! LOL

[sethp]

It boils down to the fact that even the "cougars" "the hunters" like to be approached and not be always the ones doing the approaching. I see a lot of the young guys here are "waiting to be caught by a cougar" lol

[sethp]

nice answers nice answers!~

[seansc]

ya. older women never approach me but when I approach them its a whole other story. If your waiting to be "caught" by a cougar then you might as well give up cuz its not going to happen, no matter how good-looking you are.

[sethp]

sounds good I'm waiting! oh actually that might hurt!

[seansc]

thanks for the advice so far. it makes a lot of sense.
anymore ladies?

[vitality]

Originally Posted by tarni

If you are attracted to her - just go up there and test the waters with a polite hello. Come on guys, please just do it! Why aren't you in my town?

Sometimes I get the chance to start a conversation with an older woman in a supermarket.
( I love the way you are spontaneous haha). But Im afraid of showing Im interested in her, because I dont think there is a big chance she likes much younger men. Before I know it she will throw a shopping bag at my head haha ^^

[meeeeeow]

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[vitality]

Originally Posted by tarni

So not true - she will walk away with a smile on her face then turn back and watch you as you continue shopping. Keep it up, perhaps one day I will run into a guy like you in my grocery and who knows....

Thank you for the tip, I'll keep it in mind
*Looks nervous at dart arrows*