How do you know when an older women is interested in you

[tarni]

I guess that would depend on your particular work environment and if you could actually handle it.

[wilson47]

I would smile back at him also as well as keep looking at him from time to time "smile"

[alexbrown]

Originally Posted by tarni

What you guys are not understanding is:

1) When an older woman approaches a younger man (and she does not know if he maybe interested in older women) then the odds of her being "eeeewwwwweeee"d is greater than.....

2) When a younger man approaches an older woman (and he does not know if she maybe interested in younger men) then the odds of her being flattered is phenominal.

See - it is grosser for a younger man to be approached by an older woman than for an older woman to be approached by a younger man.

When I tryed chating up older woman on Adult Freind Finder they thought I was mentally ill. I was then told to go play with girls my own age.

That sort of thing makes me too scared to do it in real life.

[trophywife4fun]

Say hello... Be polite. Don't be pushy. She'll let you know.

[sabrinaswinter]

Dear Sean:

I do understand where you are coming from. I feel more comfortable
when gentlemen approach me. But you seem like a kind person
and I know you will find the cougarette of your dreams. I'm
more on the style of "Hello Kitty!" I am kind to those who
approach me even if not interested. I'm a very courteous
woman. It'a also nice to be appreciated.

I admire men who are direct. The dating scene has
changed so much. Things are much more fast paced.
I also notice that courtesy is not as valued anymore.

I was at single events place where a nice young man
approached a beautiful older woman and she was quite
rude. This shocked me. I always felt women were so much
well...more advanced in social skills. She may also not be
interested in young men. But still she could have said
a polite, "No thank you." She truly was beautiful! But
she was not a cougar goddess by any means. A cougar
goddess is much more refined. Also see if there are
any cougar goddesses on the internet from your area.

Times have changed. However I feel the cougar
goddesses on our message board are wonderful and a
blessing to know. I wish there were clubs for
this specialized group. My favorite age group are men
in their 30's and 40's. But young men in their mid twenties
are worthy of respect and people tend to forget that
some may even be veterans. Maturity is a state of mind.
I've dated 50 year old men who brag about not paying child
support and I want to run. Children are precious to me
no matter what and should be provided for.

So, how do you know if a woman is interested.
Her face lights up as if she saw a Christmas tree
and it isn't Christmas yet...it's you. Her eyes radiate
happiness and joy because you are the ultimate gift.
Also a big smile. The lady will be happy and want to know
all about you. I wish there was a term other
than cougar. I feel it is agressive and I'm far from aggressive.
I prefer goddess or the Native American concept
of cougar as a self-determinating person of wisdom and
integrity. I feel that is a better definition for all mature
goddesses on the message board. You will know.
Also she will make you feel comfortable and at ease.
Her mannerisms will be of kindness and supreme happiness.
It's all in the eyes. Now good luck in South Carolina.
Now my wish is for all the ladies and gentleman on the
board to experience a Christmas in July. Yes?

Yours truly,
Sabrinaswinter

[kmussekl]

You need to be more active to catch an older woman than a young at the first approach - even on the cougar site. Then she will show you what she wants - my experience.

[patriciacamilles]

Cougar bars? That would be scary! Like a piece of meat chased by a pack of wolves! Yes, a man need to be active when seeking a woman, and persists if he wants to get her attention. It does work, even with me, who is not often diverted, as I am extremely focused on what I do. Cougar site, the guys who get my attention here, and my eventual interest, I must admit, are the ones who persist, like in real life. Too used to see if come and go in a jiff! I can quickly tell the level of interest from the guy whether shallow or something deeper! And I most definitely prefer the deeper meaning to life!

[djdrawp]

honestly to me Tarni about older woman approaching younger men/ younger men approaching woman is not that bad if i dont notice a older woman and she is interested and is nice i will be happy to talk to her. I could care less what a person or people think as long as she is not nasty or dirty than it dont bother me.