How to approach a cougar.

[jmart2107]

I've been lucky enough to capture a few cougars (or should I say be captured by a few cougars) When it comes down to it, its hard for us cubs to know which of the attractive older women are cougars (in to younger men) or just not interested in the younger ones.

The best way to approach this situation is by starting a nonthreatening conversation. Be humorous, interesting, inteligent, and charming. After a few minutes, it'll be very clear if she is in to you or not. You may come across a woman that just isn't in to younger men, thats okay. You win some and you lose some. Most of the time if you play you're cards right, you'll find any woman become attracted to you... Attraction is more on mental connection than age simply being a number. I find that charm and humor go a long way. Using these tools will make it hard for any cougar not to want to choose you as their prey.

[mizbehavin]

Originally Posted by jmart2107

I find that charm and humor go a long way. Using these tools will make it hard for any cougar not to want to choose you as their prey.

Don't be artificial or over complimentary. Most cougars can see right through insincerity and it's a huge turn off.

[jmart2107]

thanks miz,
that's a verrry good point. Sincerity is key. Be who you are. Love it and embrace, and then everyone around you will be forced to do the same.

[mizbehavin]

Definitely be who you are! Even if it's a little silly or you don't say exactly the right things! Cuteness gets points too!

[lunamor]

Ok jmart, organize a little training seminar and we'll steer the guys who are always sighing about how hard it is to meet women.

[jmart2107]

I'm going to need to meet up with all you beautiful ladies afterwards to practice our training.

hmm how much should i charge?? haha

[jdonia]

charge? what charge? lol

[jmart2107]

lol lunamor said i should have a training seminar to help the guys meet cougars, i was just joking around saying how much should I charge the guys to come to the seminar. dont worry, no charge for you jdonia lol. Its nice to meet you though!

[badclaire]

Baby, what you don't understand is that if anyone needs to pay anyone, it's you cubs that should pay us. We don't charge because we think you guys are just so darling begging for another round, another day.

Originally Posted by jmart2107

I'm going to need to meet up with all you beautiful ladies afterwards to practice our training.

hmm how much should i charge?? haha

[lunamor]

A new voice! Welcome, Badclaire!