I hate being stood up

[wetnwild]

Good point Nick. I think at his age he would also be more than a pizza delivery guy too. I mean I could understand if he was in his early 20's or still in school. So I don't think you missed out on much either olderisbetter. BUT, I so know what you mean about guys backing out at the last minute!!! That happens way, way way too much!!! I hate it too!

[nick89]

Yea it seems he wasnt actually committed to go through with it, thats how Im seeing this.

[lunamor]

"At his age I would think he would have enough sense to be man enough about it and offer to reschedule, or make it up to you. Looks like you didnt miss out on much in my opinion"

I'm with nick on this - as for this guy's humble job at his not-so-young age, I only have three words: "IN THIS ECONOMY..."

He's a jerk for his behavior, not for his job.

[wildblue]

Originally Posted by lunamor

And they say that WOMEN are snobs about that sort of thing? HA!

After looking back I can see where it looks like I'm being a snob about his employment. I respect anyone who gets up to go to work instead of sitting around waiting on the gubment to give them something. With that being said, the guy sounds like a jerk and maybe his jerk-ness led him to be underemployed at 33. Sometimes you do all the right things and still find yourself in a situation you didn't expect or want to be in. Given the way this guy disrespected this fine looking cougar, I'm inclined to believe his personality and lack of concern for others has put himself in this position. He did call her though, so he's only a half douche as opposed to full on douche-dom.

[andy1338]

Is working in a super market better than delivering pizzas?

[sonia]

Either one must be better than being unemployed.......

[wetnwild]

Andy, there is nothing wrong with either job. I was just commenting on the fact that this is not a VERY young guy, so I would expect at his age that he would have a better job. But like luna said, it is tough out there right now, so I suppose anything is better than nothing. That would have been a turn off to me though, for someone of HIS AGE. But then again, I don't date guys that old, so what do I know?

[feedback]

ah I hate when people take the easy way out.. Really selfish.
Its like if you went on a few dates with someone and like them but they totally disappear.

[wcdan28]

You're not being a snob. I couldn't see myself dating a 33 year old woman who delivers pizzas. Sorry.

[mizbehavin]

Not so sure that's fair. When I was living in Vegas the pizza delivery guys that I knew were pulling in over $400 a week, not bad