The Obvious Question

What attracts a woman about a younger man? How can a younger man let a mature woman know that he's interested in pleasing her exactly how she wants to be pleasured?

[cougarfan39]

I think honesty is the best way to go on this. As far as pleasuring her in the way she wants to be pleasured, I would go with a verbal route here.

[compnurse]

All sorts of things are the attraction for most of us - certainly the physical part and also things like less likely to be controlling, dominating and all those negative things associated with so many older men. As for the pleasure, just ask her to tell you, give you tips, whatever......yes, always honesty. Talk about it!

[decor8tr]

The attraction is : his energy....his stamina...his sense of fun. ....hopefully music interests ...lean strong body ..and the willingness to be with me and enjoy it !

[compnurse]

For me as above but also the wanting to be with me and enjoy it, not simply willingness - but wanting to be here.............

[deets007]

I have to agree with the energy and stamina...also the positive outlook and lack of control issues - so much fun! As for the pleasuring tips, observe and respond...I have a 26 yr old lover who is incredible and credits his skill to simply "paying attention".

[jsmolek]

I've never been with someone older, but I would agree that "paying attention" does make a difference at least in meeting older women. Younger women are too wrapped up in enjoying everyone's attention and not just individual dedicated attention from one person.

[vinnyg]

well im 23 an my gf is 34 and she pretty much says that she loves the attention i give to her an im always full of energy.... that or im good in bed lol

From the other side of the coin... I like more mature women because they are almost always more interesting and sensual. College chicks tend to be naive and they talk more than they listen. 20 somethings are trying to get somewhere and/or prove something. But women in their 30s and on up know who they are, are generally more comforatable with themselves, and make relationships/interactions so much more rewarding. I'm also physically attracted to women older than me as well.

Young men make me cum for longer - for me it's that simple.