How to properly bait your cougar trap... - GoCougar Forums - The Hunting Ground for Cougars Seeking Cubs

princebybirth · #1 (**permalink**) 10-04-2009, 04:52 AM

So I'm very curious... I've been with a couple cougars, both approached me, but it took some time of us knowing one another for it to happen. I'm sure if I put myself out there more, not trying to sound slutty lol, meaning made it more known that I'm looking for a mature woman, then it'd be easier... but how?

princebybirth · #2 (**permalink**) 10-04-2009, 04:57 AM

Oh, by the by.... I'm planning on getting this shirt

http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/n...eamsgt/lol.jpg

I've got the perfect jacket and jeans to wear with it... so I'm sure that will be the perfect spot light to catch a woman's eye in a bar or lounge... but what about when I'm out during the day? Are there any things you ladies look for as signs?

8ball · #3 (**permalink**) 10-04-2009, 03:08 PM

I could use some cougar tips too...

I could also use less old men around too, but whatever...

fuzzy · #4 (**permalink**) 10-04-2009, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by princebybirth

Oh, by the by.... I'm planning on getting this shirt

http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/n...eamsgt/lol.jpg

I've got the perfect jacket and jeans to wear with it... so I'm sure that will be the perfect spot light to catch a woman's eye in a bar or lounge... but what about when I'm out during the day? Are there any things you ladies look for as signs?

Dude, like the shirt, can i have a copy? lol.

princebybirth · #5 (**permalink**) 10-04-2009, 04:58 PM

Lol, right? It's so badass! It'll go perfect with my Kenneth Cole jacket too! So I'll look stylish while wearing a neon sign that says... COUGAR BAIT. Now that I think about it... if those scrolling LED t-shirts didn't look so tacky I'd wear one that says "cougar bait" lol.

wetnwild · #6 (**permalink**) 10-04-2009, 07:22 PM

prince, honey....you don't need a t-shirt that announces that you are cougar bait. You ARE cougar bait whether you wanted to be or not!

OH and 8ball, I could also use less old men around!! I get SO tired of getting hit on by men my age or older! I seem to attract them like flies!

As far as baiting the "cougar trap" I don't think there are any easy answers. It's the same for us cougars, we really never know for sure whether a young man will be interested or not either. So I think the normal "mating signals" apply with one little twist. I think they need to be a little more obvious. For example, you normally let someone know you're interested by smiling at them, maintaining eye contact, etc. I think with the age gap thing you need to be sure it's a bit more obvious because some of us less experienced cougars (like myself) want to be SURE you're really looking at me!

Other than that I try to keep in mind something I learned in sales a long time ago. Can't remember the exact acronym right now but it goes something like this....Some will, some won't, who cares, NEXT! In other words, don't take it personally if they're not interested. I am also telling myself this as I write this because I have to get myself back out there and find a new cub now. If you read my (by now very long) post about my LD relationship you will understand why.

princebybirth · #7 (**permalink**) 10-04-2009, 08:44 PM

Yea... he's an ass anyway you're better off... besides... as soon as I get the chance I'm heading over to your den and well any other cubs there would've gotten tossed out by me lol. You know we males like to mark our territory.

I think one of the best sly methods would be to buy a drink/ shot w.e. for her and tell the bartender to give it to her when she finishes hers... when she asks who it's from he can point you out. Then, if she's interested she can pursue, if not she'll appreciate the drink and take it as a compliment.