How to properly bait your cougar trap...

[kristina]

I agree with you princebybirth, it's all in the eys, well smile is pretty good too. I haven't checked in here much, how did you post your pic? Where are you anyway? I am in hawaii. Kristina

[tantricblissforu]

Originally Posted by andy1338

I have learned that if you compliment something that can change it is better. Like if you say I love your hair.

Ye I agree with you andy - If you want to praise something you like: always compliment jeans, never genes..i.e. If they have good style, rhythm, posture, etc. anything you notice about them but never their bodyparts/physical looks (unless you are already dating..)

[wetnwild]

Originally Posted by tantricblissforu

Ye I agree with you andy - If you want to praise something you like: always compliment jeans, never genes..i.e. If they have good style, rhythm, posture, etc. anything you notice about them but never their bodyparts/physical looks (unless you are already dating..)

Hmmm....I would MUCH rather be complimented on my physical looks than my jeans. If you tell me you like my eyes, my smile or even my hair I know that you are attracted to ME! If you tell me how much you like my JEANS I might wonder if you would still lilke me when I'm wearing something other than my jeans.

[lunamor]

It depends on which body parts get complimented: "I love your boobs/legs/butt/feet" etc from someone new comes off as pretty sleazy. "You look really great in that dress/those jeans/those sandals" is better, it's clear but more subtle.

As tantric noted, if you're already dating it's different

[ohgodno]

I'd like to cut in here and say everyone posting in this thread has fantastic boobs/legs/butts/and feet.

And once I press submit that will include me, so this is starting out as a great day.

[danceroho]

Originally Posted by iamawesome

If they ask you how old they look, or they worry aloud that you're too young for them, tell them they look 25. They fall in love with you instantly, to exaggerate.

I do agree with those who say to keep the compliments believable, 'cause most of us can spot (and don't appreciate) phony lines. But the 25 year old thing can work if you do it right . . . I was talking with a young man at a blues dance last week. He asked how long I had lived in this area, and I said about 26 years (I'm 56). With a completely straight face he instantly replied, "Oh, your whole life, then." I was taken aback for about 3 seconds, then burst out laughing. Of course, the real key is that he laughed with me, and didn't make any other ridiculous statements. Oh, and the sensual dancing didn't hurt, either. Can't wait to get to that dance this week and see if he was really interested.

[lunamor]

*laughing!*
thanks ohgodno

[tantricblissforu]

Originally Posted by wetnwild

Hmmm....I would MUCH rather be complimented on my physical looks than my jeans. If you tell me you like my eyes, my smile or even my hair I know that you are attracted to ME! If you tell me how much you like my JEANS I might wonder if you would still lilke me when I'm wearing something other than my jeans.

Maybe you personally like compliments about your genetic traits, but to me they are all lame. Most of my friends are women and I'm always hearing the most 'original' (LAME) physical compliments/ pickup when I'm with them, and they have heard them all.

Attractive girls have been hearing the same shxit since they were in 8th grade..and it always turns out bad.

ALL I'M SAYING TO GUYS IS, IF YOU WANT HER MELTING INSIDE DON'T COMMENT ON HER BEAUTY

[wetnwild]

Originally Posted by tantricblissforu

Attractive girls have been hearing the same shxit since they were in 8th grade..and it always turns out bad.

ALL I'M SAYING TO GUYS IS, IF YOU WANT HER MELTING INSIDE DON'T COMMENT ON HER BEAUTY

Well personally, I have not heard comments about being attractive my whole life because I wasn't always attractive. And, as I already pointed out earlier, I never get sick of hearing REAL compliments from a young guy! So long as they are real, its all good.

And I have to disagree with you about the melting part tantric. I can get weak in the knees if the RIGHT guy compliments me on my looks.

[houstoncougar]

for me they just have to be honest about it and since I myself was not always attractive I too can spot a bs'er right off. I do appreciate compliments on my physical genes and or my jeans (which would deff be the truth since I am one of the blessed few older women that can pull off skinny jeans and I am not talking about the ones that look like you're wearing blue jean skin I mean the straight legged cuffed 50's style). Can you tell I love jeans? Oh but back to the subject I love an honest compliment no matter what it's about.