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09-15-2009, 04:03 PM
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 How to approach women I am not very good at this but on the plus side i looked quite swish. I have a photo if anyone wants to see it.  |
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09-15-2009, 04:26 PM
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Well, I don't know what swish means, but I can tell you this: Hats as an icebreaker = bad. Never start off with something that has to do with you. Especially if it has to do with your looks. It makes you seem shallow and conceited. Same with telling her that she looks pretty. Just walk up to her and ask her if she wants a drink. If she says no, then tell her that the offer is good all night (just probably not in those words, haha). After that, just act natural. Ask her what she does for a living. Ask about politics, or the environment. Something that you'd think she knows a bit about. However, if she brings up something that you know nothing about, you're boned. At that point, it's best to just walk away because it would just end up making you look like a tool. Also, if you're gonna offer to buy drinks, bring some bank because usually women will order an expensive drink to find out if you're up to playing the game. Hope this helped...
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09-15-2009, 09:03 PM
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I get either told just act like your there friend or whatever or just go ask them if they want a drink. Neither has worked so far  swish is a word i may have or may not have invented. It means kind of like sharp. |
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09-16-2009, 12:41 AM
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say I have to agree with Tarni on this one guys. Oh, and be careful about approaching a bunch of women in a row because she may have already noticed you and has been watching you make your attempts. If I was someone's third or so choice I'd probably say "no thanks" too...
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09-16-2009, 02:40 PM
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All good points. Andy... Here's my advice: As questions about her. (not to personal or sexual - "does the carpet match the drapes" or " do you have hardwood, berber, or **** carpet" <--- those dont work!). Ask where she went to college, what she does for a living, what kind of workouts does she do, favorite foods... etc. People love to talk about themselves if you are GENUINELY interested. Let her find about on her own.. it will be a way to gauge her interest in you. If there are no questions... she's prob not interested. |
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09-16-2009, 02:43 PM
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hahahah I cant say the word S H A G here ... hahaha as in S H A G Carpet! Too f-ing funny. I can see naughty bits on BRIT TV but can't say Sh@g LOL how about ****gy. |
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09-16-2009, 04:17 PM
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 It probubly doesn't help it was in a noisy club to be honest. |
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09-16-2009, 06:40 PM
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A noisy club? That's like going into a Steak House and asking for their best vegetarian dish. I bet you were yelling into her ear.... Take 6 months and work out like a beast, go tanning and frost the tips of your hair... then go back to the club and walk up to a hottie and say: "You're HOT, can I buy you a drink?" If she says, yes.. say: "Cool, would you like to dance?" ******************** quite honestly you sound shy... I was too when I was in my early 20's... I let women come to me.. and I was miserable. |
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09-16-2009, 09:22 PM
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People like it when you buy them things?
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09-16-2009, 10:46 PM
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People love it LOL... Seriously, offering to do something for someone opens the door. How old are you? |
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