Dating Problem.. Any advice?????

[vybelist]

Why do people feel so strongly about these issues? Because the "dating game" is such a dangerous game to play! Whether you are the predator or the prey, you are quite likely to be hurt by the recreational dating scene. Some may come out unscarred from the pit of snakes, but is that any reason to walk through it?

Any tips....

Dieing to hear back from you people....

very well said, thanks for your suggestions, but what you are looking for?

I'm older woman, can a real relationship happen? I've told it works if less than 10 years between them. What are your thoughts on it? Can a marrage work?

[mitch]

it can work if theres 20 years apart. or even 30 years. its all about chemistry.

[haberdasher]

Snakes and snails and puppy dog tails, that's what little boys are made of.

I don't know why,but thanks for ur suggestion.

Originally Posted by lovelypatricia

I'm older woman, can a real relationship happen? I've told it works if less than 10 years between them. What are your thoughts on it? Can a marrage work?

I met my husband online 7 years ago. We have been married 4 years and are crazy about each other! There is 22 years between us...so yes...it can and does work.

I dated a guy who was 19 years younger for over 8 years. He wanted to get married and have children; I didn't. I have one absolutely darling child, and I don't want any more children. I don't want to remarry either.

Yes, it does work if you want it to work. I think the operative word is "want." Don't ever let anyone convince you that you don't deserve anyone that you want.

Don't get so hung up with the age disparity. I did, somewhat, and I regret it.