just say it?

[majormvd]

Well....Ive been chatting to a woman from GC for the past three months or so, weve talked to each other a lot and I think we know enough about each other, the thing is, I really like her but as much as I'd like to tell her that, Im affraid that I might ruin the friendship that we've got,

+ Im not sure if she feels the same way either....

Should I just tell her how I feel?

[blueize]

If you haven't met her yet, maybe suggesting that you get together would allow you to explore those feelings more. And that would make them easier to reveal later.

If you've already met, spend some more time together and see how it goes.

[dolph]

You gotta take a chance, You never get anywhere in life without stepping out and giving it a try.. And if she goes she goes.. Take a chance,Unless you want to be just a friend,cuz thats where not taking a chance will keep you..

[majormvd]

Ill think about asking her if she'd like to meet up, that way it might not be risking our friendship..

by the way Tarni.. youre right, but saying I've come along way makes it sound easier than I've felt. I am trying to build up that confidence piece by piece, theyre really, really small pieces but theyre building up

[majormvd]

Thanks Tarni

+ this is exactly what makes GC so great, the forums and the wonderful people too....

[majormvd]

well, i asked her.... and she said yes

the only thing is that were trying to sort out when we could meet....

(thanks again to everybody for giving me really good advice too)

[snowboardmitch]

good luck on your date!

[hogwild]

Hey congrats Major and good luck and just have fun!!!

[blueize]

You're our test case. I'm going to try this soon with my 'pretend boyfriend' as I like to call him. I'll let you all know how it goes.

[knilja]

good for you and good luck