Is she really interested?

[josca]

There's this woman I met a couple months ago at a part time job in tech support. She's my "boss" so to say and she's married, but I felt attracted to her from the first moment I saw her.
After a while I started noticing that her body language is pretty similar to mine besides that I caught her staring at me more than a couple times and as soon as I notice she looks away looking a little embarassed.
It happened enough times for me to notice and now when she passes by me she tends to look down but whenever she has to talk to me for a particular reason she tends to gives me great eye contact and I think that she is enjoying it.

The other day she touched and gripped my shoulder when she had tell me something briefly.. but I'm not sure, the signals she's giving out seem to say yes but sometimes she doesn't seem as interested specially when I don't look at her as much the day before.
Just another thing, a couple weeks ago I happened to leave at the same time as her, she was right behind me but I think she tought I didn't notice her and when we left the bulding I turned and opened the door for her. The next day she seemed to be nicer and more attentive with me than usual.
What do you think?

[buni]

I think you are asking for trouble. She is married..she is your BOSS at WORK...and you might be taking her actions for more than what they are.
If I were you I would find someone else...
Even if she is looking at you and nice to you it doesn't mean anything.

[alecto]

I say - KEEP AWAY!!! If you do anything with her and she is your boss, your job is in peril cuz she'd just as soon fire you that show that you mean anything to her especially since she is married. STOP NOW!!!

[josca]

Well it's tech support.. I don't plan to do it forever anyway. And she doesn't have any children afaik, she's perhaps only 6 to 8 years older than me.
I think the signals are quite clear but there's always the chance that she simply wants attention. This has been going on for awhile tough and I mean what are the chances that a woman will feel your shoulder without any intent behind it?

[buni]

It is just a habit some women have...touching..we are touchy feely and sometimes send wrong signals.
Having children doesn't have anything to do with it sweety...she has a husband and she is your boss.
She probably does enjoy your attention...most women love attention.

[houstoncougar]

don't even go there. Actually you know you shouldn't because you wouldn't have asked anyone's advice if you thought it was ok you're just looking for justification as in if even one person tells you to go for it you can blame it on them. Shame on you I know you're mother taught you better than that!

[energeticmale]

Definitely don't get involved with her. She's married which is the first huge no no and I doubt you'd want your wife to be seeing other guys behind your back. Plus she's your boss and even if you do find another job that sort of thing can follow you around when possible employers call your former places of work for recommendations. She might also think that she's the one catching you looking at her and finds your noticing her or being nice to her by opening the door flattering.

[alecto]

Also, who knows what kind of dude her husband is. WHEN he finds out (and he will) is he the violent type? Is he the distructive type? Is he the revengeful type? You are just opening a Pandoras Box with a married woman in ALL aspects.

[southernfinest]

The way you explained it sounds like she IS interested in...if you think its worth the risk go for it...I would try to stay away from getting in a relationship at work...Thats one way you will get tired of someone really quick although it could be great for a couple months aswell...just because she has a husband doesnt mean she wouldn't do it but still being that its your boss it isnt a good idea.

[josca]

I think she's worth the risk, she not only looks great she also seems to have an interesting personality but I don't feel par with her, she looks like an alpha female and I feel like she might be too much of a woman for me. What other reason could make such a woman get interested in let's say an average guy like me?