Cougar places

[sexxy1]

Hi, i have been a while since i have been on this forum, but am recently talking to a cougar and we are planning on meeting up soon. So i wanted to ask if u guys knw places i can take her to have fun, maybe a night club and such or places to dine out and people won't be looking at us weirdly? thanks

P.S. we live in NC.

[sexxy1]

Originally Posted by clarkusa69

What part of NC? NC is a huge state!

I live in greenville, but we wanna go outside greenville

[genevieve717]

Originally Posted by sexxy1

Hi, i have been a while since i have been on this forum, but am recently talking to a cougar and we are planning on meeting up soon. So i wanted to ask if u guys knw places i can take her to have fun, maybe a night club and such or places to dine out and people won't be looking at us weirdly? thanks

P.S. we live in NC.

Why should you care if anyone "looks at you weirdly"? So what? It's their problem. If you want to take her out, take her out on a date, just as you would any woman. Are we going back to the whole being ashamed to date an older woman thing again? If you're uncomfortable dating an older woman, then don't date her. How do you think she's going to feel if she senses you're embarassed? I wouldn't want to date a guy who was ashamed to be seen with me.

[houstoncougar]

agree with Gen I wouldn't date someone who was embarrassed to be seen with me either. He also stated that they wanted to go outside of Greenville, is that because you don't want to run into anyone you might know perchance? I have no idea why you would be asking these kinds of questions unless you think there are a bunch of hidden places in the USA where you can take someone you shouldn't be with there... I am sure there are plenty of nice, friendly places you can find on your local visitor website. It's all in the way you present yourself and how you act. Unless you're going to be sucking face and swallowing tongue at the table I don't think people are going to look at you weirdly.

[sexxy1]

No, am not ashamed to be seen with her in public or anything like that and i don't want her to sense that i am, the thing is we are both used to this part of nc, so we are trying to look for fun spots to go too. places that we there will be other cougars and such, not for me too be looking for other cougars but to be around a familiar crowd.

[genevieve717]

I don't know of any places like that anywhere that are more "cougar friendly". How can you know? Just find someplace fun and go together and don't worry about it. Have fun. Who cares who else is around? You'd be a couple on a date, just like any other couple on a date. I mean, unless you're going to some college party, or conversely to some senior citizen event, I don't see how it makes a difference where you go on a date, as long as you agree on the place and/or the activity. If you are meeting her for the first time, the whole point of the date should just be to meet and enjoy your time with someone, see if you click or not and then take it from there.

It just feels as though you are concerned about something that shouldn't even be a concern. Just go and have fun, who cares about the rest of it?

[sexxy1]

Originally Posted by genevieve717

I don't know of any places like that anywhere that are more "cougar friendly". How can you know? Just find someplace fun and go together and don't worry about it. Have fun. Who cares who else is around? You'd be a couple on a date, just like any other couple on a date. I mean, unless you're going to some college party, or conversely to some senior citizen event, I don't see how it makes a difference where you go on a date, as long as you agree on the place and/or the activity. If you are meeting her for the first time, the whole point of the date should just be to meet and enjoy your time with someone, see if you click or not and then take it from there.

It just feels as though you are concerned about something that shouldn't even be a concern. Just go and have fun, who cares about the rest of it?

Thanks a lot

[buni]

Just take her to anyplace you would take any other girl. I'm not familiar with that area so I have no idea what there is to do.
Don't worry about what other people think because in the long run it is how you both feel that is important.

[lunamor]

The more normal you feel about it, the more normal it IS.

[alecto]

Wait! What's with all the suggestions as to where to take her - shouldn't the answer be: who cares how other people will look at you? Heck, they may not even notice so don't give yourself too much credit that you are the focus of everyone you come across.