classifieds declassified (well, ok personal ads)

[majormvd]

I just wanted to ask if anybody out there has had any good responses from ads in newspapers or magazines?, Ive been thinking about placing an ad in a magazine or something,

because im beginning to think it might be difficult finding a cougar that would find me interesting, even though GC is great and ive made two new cougar friends and theyre really wonderful, its just that id like to have a serious LTR, which seems almost impossible for me to find, mainly beacause im in England (distances dont help relationships work out), and because im not very confident,

[majormvd]

Ive checked profiles of a few women from London and other areas too, but its not being shy thats the only problem, some of the women arent looking for a guy like me, age wise, 25 seems to be the limit, and the others just arent interested....as for the shy part, Ive never thought of taking confidence building classes, it sounds good but can it really help me that much?,

[majormvd]

Originally Posted by tarni

Heck yes! For some reason you see yourself as not worthy of something. You have tg get over that and I believe a class (not a self-help book) would work wonders cuz you would be with other people.

I will try to ask around and find out if there are any classes running near by, if I could get rid of feeling shy I feel I might be more able to speak to a woman, or even dare to ask her that impossible question....would you like a coffee?,

[majormvd]

I think youre right, I keep remembering what happened with the woman at the cafe and I just feel anxious that it might come across in the wrong way,

I tend to stutter when Im nervous....but like I said, ill try to find some classes, Im pretty sure they dont run any on campus, but ill ask anyway,

[majormvd]

its just difficult to forget it, Ive moved on, but forgeting the awful feeling she made me feel isnt easy,