Any experienced ladies looking for a new friend? Don't be shy...

[bolero]

Hello to all those experienced ladies interested enough to read my post. I'm a younger man in his early to mid-twenties who has always been very attracted to the so-called "cougar", an urban slang term that fails to communicate the true nature of an accomplished, experienced, attractive, fun, and intelligent older woman. I know there can be a lot of anxiety in age-gap relationships, but there shouldn't be because it really doesn't matter how old we are, only how we want to experience our own lives.

For me, the allure of the older woman is quite sexy, because instead of an inexperienced, shy and often immature girl, I can spend time with a much more interesting woman who needs (and sometimes craves) the right touch of virility and passion that we younger "cubs" can provide. Indeed, especially if your authority over me is that much more pronounced, it turns me on because it bespeaks a woman whose sexual confidences match and then surpass my own, and the intensity of attraction between us is all the more heightened.

Also, there is so much to learn from accomplished woman outside the bedroom as well, there is so much of the world that they can share, and so much more appreciation, attention, and care that we "cubs" can give in return.

So to all you experienced ladies out there who are even the least bit curious about what I'm talking about, write me back. Who knows, you might wind up meeting someone you really like and the adventure would begin!

[buni]

wow, I agree. I wish you luck finding someone as well.

[beard]

May I congratulate you on expressing yourself so eloquently. This is just what will entice cougars to respond to a message. I don't usually write on forums but you most certainly pushed my reaction button. You sound a really interesting guy and am sure you will have no end of cougars scratching at your door to get to know you. Where in the world are you?
Grrrrrr. xxx

[bolero]

Thank you for reading my post, I'm glad you all like it. I think I'll take your advice Tarni and post a bit more about myself. For anyone who read my post and wants to know a bit more about me, I am a young actor/musician/writer who lives in Chicago. I guess you could call me a midwestern bohemian. I am trying to build an acting career here and so far I am in three plays at once, so it's going well. I primarily do Shakespeare, so if I'm interested in you and write to you in iambic pentameter, it's probably because I spend a lot of time onstage speaking in it. I am also an amateur poet, mostly just for myself, because I love the sublime sensation of language used to express emotion and to capture moments. I don't know if I am any good, but it doesn't matter because it's mostly for me or others who are interested. Lastly, I play the guitar and sing, and my eclectic musical tastes diverge from classic rock and rhythm & blues to country western and latin to even a few classical pieces. I am from a family of recreational musicians, so music was an ever-present keystone of my life. I am also multi-racial, possessing Irish, Spanish, and Filipino ancestry. I speak French, and I also know some Spanish and Tagalog because I spent a lot of time with my Filipino-Spanish grandparents.

I am something of a hopeless romantic in the literary sense of the word. I am passionate about life and experiences, and want to share them with as many interesting people as possible. I feel like this post is in danger of sounding self-centric and conceited, but in truth it is impossible to have a conversation about any of you interested women if I don't know you or can't reach you... so if you are interested look me up on the site. I am Passions_Bolero and I will be expecting you.