Answers Please

[cedarwood]

I am 28 and looking for 40+ Ladies....

That would be my Cougar, I can see her now!! However, just read some post from an 18 yro looking for 25-35... that's his Cougar obviously but has just made me think that at 28 is my Cougar fantasy is gone... am I too old to be Cougar bait :-)

Oh please tell me no... :-(

[asouthernbelle]

absolutely not....everyone (cougar and "bait") has their own age range that is within their comfort zone.

my advice - be honest and real and you'll find your cougar.

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[sbrdbnt]

Originally Posted by cedarwood

I am 28 and looking for 40+ Ladies....

That would be my Cougar, I can see her now!! However, just read some post from an 18 yro looking for 25-35... that's his Cougar obviously but has just made me think that at 28 is my Cougar fantasy is gone... am I too old to be Cougar bait :-)

Oh please tell me no... :-(

25-35 isn't exactly a cougar, by the way. Although the definition of what a cougar is, varies depending on who you ask, I've always gone by the following:

40 years of age and older, that dates guys at least 10-15 years younger.

I have heard that a 30-something that dates younger guys would be called a Puma. I have heard a term for 20-somethings, but wouldn't their bait be on the border of being a minor (regardless, they'd be known as cougars in training On the other side, I've heard the term Mountain Lion to refer to those past the age of retirement who date younger men.

I'm 30, and I dated a 49 y/o woman for a month. I certainly don't consider myself too old to be bait


Ok, I know way too much about this

[carolynpdx]

Some would say you're just right

[trophywife4fun]

Most of my like minded friends say 28-32 is ideal. I do prefer college age guys but that's me.

[dverdier]

Cedar, you're probably in a better place than younger guys because you've had the time to get stabilized. Me, I'm fresh out of college, back in the town where I grew up, so I'm getting back into the groove of things...