So what are Guys really looking for on this site?

[cfohunny]

Money? Sex? Relationships? All of the above?

I get tons of messages and chat and then pfft. No one wants to cam, are all the men misrepresenting their looks or something?

Sorry but I wouldn't go to meet anyone without camming with them first.

CFOHunny

[sbrdbnt]

I personally am looking to meet someone who I connect with on the intellectual and emotional level. I find that I do that much easier with someone older than I.

The 'best relationship' I was in was with someone 19 years older than I. I 'feel' 10 years older than I am, while she probably felt 10 years younger, so we connected well. I would like to have that again.

As to sex, yes please.

Money isn't so important.

As to going on cam, I certainly wouldn't have a problem with doing so. You clearly have been chatting with the wrong men. There really is no point to misrepresenting yourself, particularly your appearance, as they will have to eventually see you, if you plan to get that far.

I've always had an attraction to older women, I haven't had a relationship with any but I can't say that's solely what I'm here for although it would be nice.

But to answer your question, I'd have to say a relationship. Which could be friendship or otherwise.

I'm very upfront about who I am on here. I upload pictures of myself and I would love to take chatting to the next level by making a phone call. I can't cam because currently, I have no webcam.

[cedarwood]

Read my profile, that's all I'm lookin for. No hiding, no faking, just a classy, beautiful lady!!! you don't get that in the young'ns!!! Personally, not interested in Money, have my own but guess some might be x Oh...and will cam anytime x

[mino]

Originally Posted by cfohunny

Money? Sex? Relationships? All of the above?

I get tons of messages and chat and then pfft. No one wants to cam, are all the men misrepresenting their looks or something?

Sorry but I wouldn't go to meet anyone without camming with them first.

CFOHunny

I am looking for a friendship with an older woman. Since I have always been attracted to them and usually get along better with them, I'm looking for someone I could talk and have great time with. What comes next, comes next (maybe the most importnt relationship in my life, who knows..) I'm doing this for the first time..

[buni]

almost every guy who has sent me a message has offered to cam with me. I'm usually the one that is shy about camming.

[kiwinomad]

I think it's mostly sex, male gold diggers are still a rarity in society I think.

As for no camming, some guys are shy I guess, and others might not be able to provide the body they've claimed. Personally it's freeeezeing in my house right now so I've got a balaclava on :O

[kiwinomad]

I'm in the UK, I have a bet with a friend I won't have the heating on this winter. It's um, interesting. I never realised just how difficult some things were when you can see your breath.

[buni]

What are you going to do when it is time for a shower? BRRR cold