Where Can One Find Sweet Men - GoCougar Forums

sabrinaswinter · #1 (**permalink**) 06-30-2008, 09:37 PM

Where can one find sweet men from Long Island.
I'm a shy cougar who feels more like "Hello Kitty."
Seeking a sweet and kind human being for a
meaningful relationship. Any ideas. Also
how does one know a younger person is
interested in a more mature woman?
The youngest person I dated was 38 and so kind.

int3rcom · #2 (**permalink**) 07-01-2008, 07:07 AM

Trust me, we're out here, and looking just like you are.

sabrinaswinter · #3 (**permalink**) 07-01-2008, 05:22 PM

Dear INT3:

Thank you for your kind emotional support. I pray for both of us
that we meet nice people. It is so hard for me. I wish there
was a meeting place. Have a wonderful day and a Happy 4th of July.

Yours truly,
Sabrina

rahul4321 · #4 (**permalink**) 07-16-2008, 11:39 AM

Ok,you Cant Have Sugar Along With Him .you Have To Find Out If It Is Sugar Coated Or Not. Beleave Me Some Day Yu Will Find A Cute Guy With Sweet.

macnaman · #5 (**permalink**) 07-21-2008, 04:55 AM

i'm out here and hunting hard....never been with an older woman and wanna know how it feels like...so any hot mama's from bos..please holla.

greg22 · #6 (**permalink**) 07-21-2008, 07:53 AM

sweet guys are more common than you think

mikemck123 · #7 (**permalink**) 08-08-2008, 10:34 PM

good luck ...ever been to Chi town?

jackfrost · #8 (**permalink**) 08-13-2008, 04:40 AM

Sweet guys are here. Unfortunately I'm not in the Long Island area. Nonetheless, sweet guys do still exist.

greg22 · #9 (**permalink**) 08-16-2008, 12:09 AM

sweet guys do exist, but they never get any women, doesnt matter how much women say they like sweet guys, doesnt make it true

jackfrost · #10 (**permalink**) 08-16-2008, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by greg22

sweet guys do exist, but they never get any women, doesnt matter how much women say they like sweet guys, doesnt make it true

This is not a scientific study I have conducted, but it's my personal observation of people. I have noticed that these not so sweet guys that women get stuck with are part of what I called the "Chameleon Effect." These guys simply blend theirselves in to whatever the woman wants them to be. Then, when they have the woman in a "love" state, they gradually start to expose their true self. Once the women is in a love state, it seems to be too late.

I say "seems to be" because everyone has a choice. No exceptions. The "right" choice may not always be the easiest, but we have choices, nonetheless.