Racist towards East Indian / brown skinned guys

[CuteTexan]

Originally Posted by pratik0829

Hey all beautiful woman out there. So far I have been here for around 4 months and still no one has replied back to any message on the main site nor to a simple hi reply. Just because I am brown and an Indian but have been in USA for last 3 years, no one has chatted with me. I have completely lost all hope in friendship let alone of a relationship with an older woman.

Really? I can't believe you just went there....

[bayridgebabe]

oh he went there cute Texan. Guess he had to call the "racist" card, cause no one responded to him. Again I'll say it different strokes for different folks, that's what makes the world go round. Every one has their own opinion of what sexy is & what turns them on & doesn't.

[LACougarV]

Yeah you whiners keep going on playing your "racist" game....keep in mind that you just upped the odds for CuteTexan...NOT that he needed it. LOL

Yohan...the only hater here is YOU. Pratik...nice to know you own a pair of jeans and a t-shirt....versatility is a good thing! ;-)

[bluemerrage]

pratik0829, I understand you, because I also experienced those rejecton, Im not Indian, but I was rejected before. I just dont mind those rejection. Keep it up, dont loose your hope, because thats the only thing we had.

[saik]

Colour matters a lot less in dating I've found these days. How you present yourself and how you project when talking to someone is really all you need to work on. Good looks help too!

[olderisbetter44]

I don't care what a person's skin color is. My issue is that I will probably not be able to make it half way accross the world in the near future so it is more of a logistics problem. I think maybe you should not have used the term "racist" but maybe English is not your first language and you don't understand nuance of words in our language? I don't know...I am trying to say that I think you have a valid question and I don't think it is fair for people to get all up in arms about it without actually talking to you first to really understand what you mean. Good luck.

[elfprincess]

I agree with olderisbetter44 with regard to the problem of distance. There is no point in chatting with a view to meeting a man many thousands of miles away.

Also - please bear in mind that there are very often huge cultural and/or religious differences involved. These will matter much more to some people than to others but they are always in some way significant.

As someone said previously - what one person likes or does not mind, another will feel is simply not for them. This is the way of the world! And we are all entitled to like what we like, seek what we want and need, and not feel pressured into 'liking' people outside our field of interest.

[elfprincess]

Originally Posted by saik

Colour matters a lot less in dating I've found these days. How you present yourself and how you project when talking to someone is really all you need to work on. Good looks help too!

Ha Ha yes - good looks do help! But of course the other factors you mention matter too.

The bottom line is we ALL like what we like, and we don't like what we don't like! If we see a pic of a face we personally don't find attractive, then that's that. It's just the way it is. The same appplies to all men and women on this site.



Well said x