OLDER men

[Willowmoon]

I am only new to this site, but at other sites I get a lot of older guys too I think it is the whole if I can make you play for my team again I will feel better about myself sort of thing? I don't know I find it really irritating. I don't want to be with guys my own age or older for the plain fact most are really boring lol I also don't really like the whole hi I have so many inches attached to me wanna chat rubbish either.

[latinainsc]

Although I'm much older than you I can definitely sympathize! I'm not really hung up on age on itself, it's how a guy looks and acts, and it just happens that men my age and older are practically ready for "the home". I am very youthful in spirit and looks, I am told very often that I look like I'm early 40s, I'm also very passionate and my greatest nightmare would be a man who needs those little blue pills (shivers!) but I get mail from ugly, old-looking men from 2 other sites, one supposedly for AGRs. I don't really want someone who is extremely younger than me, just someone that I can find attractive and alive enough regardless of his age and since that's not happening at other sites I've resorted to come here but there are waaaay too many guys in their early 20s here, I've come to wonder if it's just a phase that they go through...

[elfprincess]

Yes, we all get the older men. What CAN one say?

A 62-year-old toyboy? And even older?

They surely live in hope lol.

[Jypzee]

if the guy who is messaging me is too old in my mind..i delete the message..if the guy doesnt live close enough to drive to meet, i delete that message, too

[elfprincess]

Last night a 54 year old guy came after me with great determination - and of course failed because I very nicely but firmly explained during the IM convo that he was older than me and that I and other women here are looking for a younger partner. He just would not accept that. Finally I sorta drifted away...

This morning I saw his profile listed and he has taken TEN YEARS off his real age! He now claims to be 44. GRANT123. Why oh why do middle-aged men - and older than that - come after women on a site such as this one? What are they trying to prove??

LOL.

[EclectiCath]

They feel threatened that their dating pool is leaving them out. Instead of attacking the men, they chase us here.

My coworker, middle aged, stressed I should narrow my age gap by 5 years or less, but they go after younger women. There is still traditional biological limits as to why young men mate women for only reproductive reasons, hence they seek baby mamas and label women as breeders first, rather than partners and peer equals second. It is hard because I do not have any children while many divorced or single men want or have and would like additional children. In fact some younger men, a few, already have kids too and are single dads.
In conclusion, today I felt I was good for no one and left out in exile with an expiration date.

[elfprincess]

Accch Cath, don't you believe it! Who told you that? My guess is that your coworker is either female and way less attractive than you, or male, also less attractive, and locked into typical older man thinking and behaviour.

Women, alas, are often our worst critics. The reasons for this are many and complex but one simple truth is that a woman who easily - and often without trying to - attracts not only younger men but men from all age groups and backgrounds, is seen as a threat to other women. She is also envied very powerfully. This envy and resentment are frequently manifested as so called 'good, honest advice'. From a 'friend'.

Don't you believe a single word!