Views on Hook ups

[Casual]

For or Against?

[violet]

Theoretically, I'm not against the idea - you only live once. Practically, it's not really for me.

[lunamor]

I'd never outlaw them but I'd never make it a dating goal, either.

Hookups are all I'm looking for, so I guess I'm for!

[aliasangel]

No "hookups" here.

[_CougarHunting_]

What exactly are we hooking up for ?.

I, mean seriously. It's a good question.

[Jypzee]

im Assuming hookin up for sex, cougarhunt..im not against that, it depends on the guy...

[_CougarHunting_]

Ah well if it's just for sex don't be afraid to ask for it again after the 1st time around. :P.

Just won't do married or has a b/f that want's to watch or has one. It just won't work for me.

[lovelyj]

So what does that look like? Trying to picture it.

Me: Hi, let's meet at (where? My place, hotel? Or dinner first?)

Him: O.K

We meet, we greet, we have a drink and go off to bed? I just can't picture doing anything so quickly. One cub said once here that sometimes it's like he crosses the threshold and he can barely say hello before they're having sex, and then other itmes its way more like dating and taking your time.

I guess I'm all for dating and taking your time. Unless that chemistry is absolutely explosive, then I guess yes.

[xihu88]

I would love to find someone where it was not just a one nighter or just a hook up. But when the situation reveals that it will not be more than that, I would rather have the hook up than nothing at all! So in that regard I am all for it :P