how to swwp a cougar off her feet.... non sex

[mikkah]

well, it is not about sex, or hook ups for me. i hold myself to a better standard than a sex toy, been there done that, have had a nd seen many, but life is about sharing the finer things...chats, conversation, concerts, movies and fun

so if you need sex, move on, this will not work, but if you need a pure relationship, this might work

eye contact....look her in the eye, if you have been a player before, you know the power here, a woman can melt away, and she will smile everytime she sees you.

challenge her, put her in positions which require mental prowess, and watch her ponder, and burn in awe

say smart compliments,...don be like...you are very beautiful and sexy....uh uh...be something like, i am not used to being around beautiful people, i am a little nervous, and she will give off that cougar laugh, remember it is not about sex,

encourage her, most cougars have some form of insecurity, and be quick to pick it up, and assure her, that she should not worry, it could be like this,,, well i am too old to do that, or any thing that is deep seated, assure her that it is okay, in a smart way,
i could go on, but thats enough

[bayridgebabe]

PFFFFFFFFFFFTTTTTTTTTTT insecure honey you got it all wrong. We older ladies are FAR FAR from insecure, it's the young guys who are the insecure not us at all.

[uni58]

Doubt that very much bayridgebabe, doubt that very much.

[mikkah]

look babe, do you have make up? do you wear a figure altering bra? do you spend time on cosmetic procedures, this is how it works.....

but many girls not the cliche older women, are full of life and worth paying homage for their great beauty, i have met some as friends, and when you talk to her for a while you find out what richness and life struggles are deep within her, but her smile is pricless and to share in her fears is even greater because that is true companionship

[sexy_pleasure]

Originally Posted by mikkah

well, it is not about sex, or hook ups for me. i hold myself to a better standard than a sex toy, been there done that, have had a nd seen many, but life is about sharing the finer things...chats, conversation, concerts, movies and fun

so if you need sex, move on, this will not work, but if you need a pure relationship, this might work

No sex? I think that is called a "Friend" or if you living together a “Roommate”, don’t you think?
Nothing wrong with that, but please do not be confused.

Originally Posted by mikkah

eye contact....look her in the eye, if you have been a player before, you know the power here, a woman can melt away, and she will smile everytime she sees you.

That is if you are Brad Pitt or Tom Brady or William Levy, or if we are totally and madly in love with a man, ONLY !

Originally Posted by mikkah

... challenge her, put her in positions which require mental prowess, and watch her ponder, and burn in awe.

Please do not flatter yourself so bluntly! I think with this you are the one who is trying to challenge yourself trying to accomplish something like that, good luck!!!
Talking about being arrogant...

Originally Posted by mikkah

say smart compliments,...don be like...you are very beautiful and sexy....uh uh...be something like, i am not used to being around beautiful people, i am a little nervous, and she will give off that cougar laugh, remember it is not about sex,

Do you really think that this lack of experience and self assurance could be a "turn on" for us (Older beautiful and smart women)?

Originally Posted by mikkah

encourage her, most cougars have some form of insecurity, and be quick to pick it up, and assure her, that she should not worry, it could be like this,,, well i am too old to do that, or any thing that is deep seated, assure her that it is okay, in a smart way,
i could go on, but thats enough

Really?!?!?! LMAOL

Hey, Mr.!
If perceiving women like that works for you, hey! I'm happy for you.
But please do not assume you know everything about women when you not even have figured out your self !
Do not try to empower your maleness looking down on women. You are totally off track, trust me on that. That's all .

Talking about being way to immature, arrogant and totally confused!

[mikkah]

i cant explain it all, it is called chemistry, have you ever wondered why that butt ugly, broke artist is in love with an amazing actress.

well brad pitt or tom brady? why would they look at you, they have angelina jolie and gisele bundchen, so regular people like you and me, can melt each other away, this notion that one has to be a celebrity is based on insecurity, that to be, you have to be like tom brady, please, i am happy with who i am, and so should you be mamacita...

y cuando se trata de sexo, se puede esperar,

[mikkah]

well i am not trying to accomplish anything here, you women here are rude, and i do not think that any woman, despite how pretty she is can disrespect me, it is my integrity?
but why?

because i am not seeking pleasure but friendship, most guys will do anything for sex, na na, i respect my body and i have morals, values.

well call me what may, i do not care, but why should i conform,

[mikkah]

if you read my posts, i havent bragged about what i can do, who i am or this or that, i was just stating personal experiences, i used to work at a gym, and i knew all the cougars there, so i started to talk to them, after a while on thing became common, cougars are insecure, but they have learned to accept it as natural, and they live with it, unlike a 22 yr old girl, they are not governed by insecurity

why shouldnt i state my opinion, because it might make you mad////

[mikkah]

it is not about maleness, that is an excuse that women, play the male card. i do not think that any sex is better, but here iswhat is happennin

some women esp cougars have been abused and been through messy relationships and divorces, such that they are deeply bitter, and any guy in sight they shoot, babe, open up like a flower, let the past go, forgive so as to heal...

i didnt hurt you, i am just looking to be your friend,,,, maybe you are replying my forum because it is worth your time...so am i really that bad...i am here looking to be your freind....

[sexy_pleasure]

Personally I'm only looking for smart, talented and kind friends only .
Want to be my friend? Please be kind and smart. Do not call us insecure, that is rude!

Worth my time?
I told you before Mr., please do not flatter yourself so much!

And about the celebrity statement...
I SAID:
For me to melt away, you need to look like that (not be one of them) or me to be totally in love with a man, and that my dear with your attitude towards women, will never happen.

Does being attracted to good looking men make me insecure? No, no no!
That makes me have a good taste on good looking men, that’s all!
Once again, do not get confused.

Finally and for your information,
I am not bashing you, just trying to bring some light in to so much confusion, but please do not take it so personal. LOL

Having a little commonsense when posting in this forum, goes long ways !

Just saying…