Feminine Traits

[budder8818]

I have a question directed towards the older women (cougars). My question, which is asked in the context of this website, is: How do you feel about men (cubs) who have or display these traditionally feminine traits? What feminine traits/skills would you value or want in a cub? I use the word traditionally because I don't want to offend any one, I understand that in modern day the male and female roles have molded together or switched in some situations. Additionally, my audience is an older crowd so I assume you might value these traits/skills as traditionally female.

For example,

Physical:

Round features, like the face, cheeks, ect.
A slim peite body
Long Hair, Earrings,
ect Anything else you can think of...

Skills:

Cooking, rearing, hairstyling/cutting, domestic organization/cleaning
errand running. Please feel free to add. I'm sure the list is longer


Additionally, please describe whether you would be more attracted to a man with any of these traits or less attracted? Why?

Essays will be scored on a 5 point basis with emphasis on content and grammatical correctness.






lol, just kidding. I'm just curious about your opinions ladies. Thanks for replying.

[Jypzee]

a round face, short round nose, round cheeks, round forehead and chin all contribute to a more youthful look along with full, rounded lips and thicker eyebrows, as u age one's eyebrows tend to thin and the face lose the roundness of childhood...personally, i like long hair on guys..and i like a guy who can cook and doesnt mind housework! who wouldnt?

[sexy_pleasure]

Originally Posted by Jypzee

a round face, short round nose, round cheeks, round forehead and chin all contribute to a more youthful look along with full, rounded lips and thicker eyebrows, as u age one's eyebrows tend to thin and the face lose the roundness of childhood...personally, i like long hair on guys..and i like a guy who can cook and doesnt mind housework! who wouldnt?

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I personally love men who are soft, but strong at the same time.
Men who appreciate fine arts and the fine life.
I love men who have the ability and talent to place themselves in my situation and think about what I would like to see, to hear or to have, from my prospective. I do the same for them all the time.

Do not like men who talk too much or are yelling all the time at the front of television looking at sports, yuck!
I do not like men who throw traffic rage or bullies of any type.
I love smart men who do not have to be an idiot or make a clown out of themselves.
Physically, I always like a man with a nice arms, strong torso, abs and legs and a good looking a$$

[rhonda2]

No No No- The James Arness type for me. I want tall, angular, square jawed mountain of a man- who can overwhelm me with his power. And it does not hurt if he has power in the business world as well. I think that's the prototypical desire for most females.

[aelit]

If a dude can pass for a girl, this only makes him hot. Masculine is very ugly to me.
No need to force any gender stereotypes on people. Luckily I live in California, not in rural South or midwest, with all the typical hate of those who're different from the mainstream square society (I lived there, and I've seen the hate). No need to stereotype and divide into "feminine" and "masculine"--it's 21st century and we will have a female president eventually, time to end backwards mentality. No need to force people into square brackets, of what's appropriate for "this or that race", or "this or that gender", or tell them "what to wear", or "how to act", and what little societal prescriptions to follow and from whom to take little condescending lectures about "how you should be".

Be what you're comfortable with--you, not someone else--don't try to be what someone else wants you to be. If someone doesn't like your feminine traits--it's not the right person for you. Your question generalizes and objectifies women, by calling older females "cougars" and lumping them into one, non existent, category. Each person is an individual, a HUMAN BEING, not a "cougar"--or DUMB TEENAGER (would someone want to be called that and dumped into one big category?). Some older women like younger men and like them feminine, some like them masculine, some like in between. There're no instructions or prescription, humans don't come with instructions. Stop generalizing human beings and viewing them as one soul-less, uniform mass of people without individuality.

What do "Latinos" like? Each likes something different. What do "Russians" or "Blacks" like? Each likes something different. No need to stereotype. What is considered "traditionally female" trait by one society, is not considered such by another society. Certain races and nationalities, for example, tend to have small noses and round faces. Feminine and masculine are largely false societal constructs, imposed via brainwash from childhood times. Where I grew up at, for example, it was considered unthinkable and shameful for a male to wash dishes or do own laundry--due to society being backwards, misogynist and hateful(they're in dirt now). They used to consider all American men "feminine" and make fun of them just because they did own laundry and would make own food at home.

I don't care if a guy wears regular shorts and jersey or a french maid costume, really--it doesn't define the person. If you go around asking general public "what they generally like"--you're only bound to get some major blows to your self-esteem and confidence, as you're a unique individual and not a factory-made standard object for everyone to like you and you can't please everyone.

[rhonda2]

wow- all of that because I said I liked the James Arness type?