At what age does the serious intimacy start?

[redfox21]

As a "cub", I crave the serious, passionate intimacy with women.

"Your place or mine?"

"Hurry up, do it now!!!"

Stuff like that doesn't seem to happen much with younger people. Only older women tend to sometimes come across that way. Afterall, you have 30 year olds still living at home nowadays. You have girls in their 20s that find men who are masculine and sensual a turn-off or "creepy" while older women eat it up.

What age does that type of serious intimacy begin? Is it just in the movies? Or is it gone with older generations?

[phxgirl1]

I don't consider "your place or mine?" or "hurry up, do it now!" intimacy. That's just plain lust in my book.

Intimacy to me is being so in tune with your partner you know each other enough that those things you mentioned just don't ever come up in the conversation. It's a feeling you only get with having a relationship with someone. That relationship could be just as friends that respect each other or a committed thing between two people. It just happens and doesn't really need to be spoken, except of course in movies.

How about getting to know women of any age redfox21 and see what happens? You might be surprised if you really open yourself up to it. Remember, it takes two to be in tune with each other.

BTW, what does 30 year olds living at home have to do with it?

[emmanuel123]

I really think age doesn't really its all about the way you two feel about each other..

[Laurad121]

Lines like "your place or mine" and "hurry up do it now" are not part of my conversation ever and if someone said them to me I would be so turned off. Real true intimacy and passion have nothing to do with acting like that. True intimacy and passion grow over time when real feelings develop......my boyfriend let me set the pace and didn't rush me. Just holding hands at the movies or in the park is intimate, as well as long talks, long sweet kisses, when he looks into my eyes and smiles...it is much more than sex. We have dates where we don't even have sex at all and are very intimate with each other despite that.....

[live2be]

Originally Posted by redfox21

"Your place or mine?"

"Hurry up, do it now!!!"

I hope you are not talking about installing washing machines.

Take things casually and let things fall in their places. It will answer by itself. When you are having doubts about intimacy; you are already on a primrose path.