Three Married Men In A Row

[tiffanyfontaine]

Today on OKCupid I heard from three equally attractive men, 34-45, all successful professionals, all very handsome, tall, good writers, wrote amazing profiles and great first emails to me. Perfect guys.

The only problem is that when I read closer I found out they were all married, living with their wives and wanted "just to get to know other women for discrete fun."

It made me mad that all three of these seemingly perfect guys was married and just wanted FWB.

I wrote back to two of these guys and told them in a very direct, but not unfriendly way that as my profile states I'm not looking for FWB. They both wrote
back to me and said, "I know what your profile states, but I just thought you'd change your mind."

I notice more and more of these guys are writing me, now. It's frustrating and wastes my time. I don't want some guy who is sneaking around, cheating on his unsuspecting wife who he lives with in a supposedly happy marriage.

[bayridgebabe]

You are not alone in your feelings, or actions. I too have received many request from married men asking to be a FWB. I'm like WTF is up with that? The funny thing is they think that "they" can or will be the one to change you mind, even though you state in your profile no NSA or FWB, no 1 night stands etc. Guess that the WWW for you. Anything goes now.