Dissapointed and confused

[laidbackoz]

Hi all

First time post, a little nervous so please be kind

Im 26 male, australian and i have been a member on gc for a while but wasnt sure if it were my thing of not. I have been played around and by girls in my age bracket before but there was this one girl i thought i connected really well with.

she was from out of town and we met up, had a few drinks and she asked if she could stay at mine. naturally i said yes and when we got back to mine started kissing and leading to sex. it appeared to me she was quite drunk and i didnt feel comfortable sleeping with her, which i told her. she stormed out of my room and eventually came back, started hugging and ready to go to sleep when she tried again. again i said no but this time she went off at me calling me names and stuff. the next day she messaged me asking if we had sex, i explained what happened and thats pretty much the last i have spoken to her.

i think i deserve someone good, maybe going a little older would be good for me. i would treat a lady amazing, but all i seem to get a girls stuffed in the head.

[cherryaa]

Sounds like time to take a step back and start going out with those capable of drinking rather less and thinking rather more!


Good luck in finding her

[laine175]

Seems to me you were stuck between a rock and a hard place and you still managed to do the right thing.....her loss not yours honey. Trust me women....not girls....would very much appreciate your honorable actions.

[Laurad121]

I think it is nice you didn't take advantage of that girl. I think that if you are attracted to an older woman then give it a try. Just be up front that you have never dated older and that you are looking for someone more mature who doesn't play games so the expectations are clear.

[tiffanyfontaine]

You seem like an honorable and mature young man.

I definitely think you should try dating an older woman.

You might just find your match.

[chilledice]

Lucky escape mate she sounds like a right nutter! you done the right thing bro!

[olderisbetter44]

lol She had to ask you if you had sex? She is a "nutter" !

[whynotbehappy]

Well I'm proud of you and you should be proud of yourself! And yes, you escaped a "nutter" (nice called chilledice) lol. I can't imagine ever being so drunk I wouldn't remember having sex. There are lots of women who want nice guys, and you sound like one. Just figure out what you are looking for and it should come to you. Never be afraid to ask a woman out, what's the worst that can happen? she'll say no, but she might say Yes! Good luck! My son had the same experience, and I'm proud to say, he told the woman NO too.

[bforboy]

yeah good job there.. first post as well.. gotta let the ladies know that we have control of the situation too.. all too often they think guys say yes to sex always.. which is somewhat insulting.. ive had my share of rejecting girls.. my friends would bust me.. but i think to have a great time you definitely need the right connection as well as good timing.. its cliche.. but dont worry about it.. pretty sure miss right is just around the corner