What is wrong with you women on here?

[patriciacamilles]

Wow! Nice thread! I always love some discussion. I must admit that I've faultered on many counts in that respect. Sorry! The problem is to separate the nice guys from the less nice guys! After answering a few nasty ones, you get turned off completely!

[pantera]

Good point. I've been lucky enough to only have had one such encounter so far. A inquirer started out his intro with an off-color, sexually explicit joke .....which wasn't funny. And I have a VERY broad (no pun intended) sense of humor.

[mochamama]

I tried to look at your profile...but saw nothing there. I do agree that we should be courteous enough to send some sort of response, though, when we're contacted, and I do try to do that. Sometimes, though, as someone else mentioned, we get bogged down in our real life adventures and just can't get to everything. I hope your experiences have been better since you posted this appeal1

[jackfrost]

Originally Posted by jtedwards25

Hello,

I just want to say that I have been searching and emailing a lot of women on here and it seems to me that I have yet to get ANY responses--WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG?? I've had a couple of women on here just merely browse my profile after receiving my message, but then they leave no reply.

LADIES, IF I HAPPEN TO SEND YOU AN EMAIL, PLEASE BE COURTEOUS ENOUGH TO SEND ME AN EMAIL BACK; EVEN IF IT'S ONE JUST TO SAY "THANKS, BUT NOT INTERESTED." DON'T JUST MERELY VIEW MY PROFILE!! -----GEE WHIZ!!!!! What the HELL is going on here????

If you all want to view my profile then my profile is JTEdwards25. If you all see anything wrong or needs "fine-tunning", please let me know. I can't for the life of me understand why I am getting no responses, and yet, I am sending out emails e-v-e-r-y-d-a-y! WHAT THE HELL IS "REALLY" GOING ON HERE????

I have to agree with immaturity on the poster's part. I agree with the posts about it taking up much time to send a response just to say "Sorry, but I'm not interested." If a lady has a large number of inquiries, then this task can become tedious and time-consuming.

Now, why I do say immaturity? This type of post with the CAPS is annoying. From my years on the Internet (10+), the use of caps has always been an indication of yelling. Next is the emphasis by s-p-e-l-l-i-n-g out words. This is the first day that I have actually visited the forums and from what I have read, everyone here seems to be quite proficient in English. Therefore, it's quite unnecessary to spell out what you need to say.

As I believe tarni has mentioned before on here, life is full of rejections, get used to it (not quoting her exact words). I consider a dating website akin to going for an interview at a job. Unless the job says they are going to call you with their decision, then don't be surprised if a prospective job does not call you back because they decided to go with another candidate. On those lines, I would like to ask that original poster, Do you call jobs that you have applied for and ask them, "How come you never called me? What's wrong with you people?"

Finally, the topic of "What's wrong with you women on here?" Firstly on the final note, improper grammar. I know, I don't have a Blue Ribbon award for writing, but I do try to use proper grammar. Next is the tone of the topic. Personally, if I were a lady and read the topic, I would instantly be turned off. I consider the tone to be quite authoritative and in a way, condescending.

That's just my $0.02.

[boredstudent89]

If your introductory email is anything like your first post on here then that would explain the lack of responses, I'd love to see you working your oh so eloquent charm in real life at a bar or whatever, especially your reaction if its to no avail.

[uniquelymystical]

well a lot of the guys wont even respond when we send message.... so is it kinda even?? but yes it is not a good courtesy or manners to now say thx but no thx