Caution!!

[jesse7982]

hello everybody. a quick caution to the guys to conduct your homework just as the ladies do with us men. there is a female user on here by the user name of "blondeered" who claims to be a cougar, says she s age 43 , however... i just came acrossed the same woman on another dating site, plenty of fish. on this site her user name is "blondebeauty777". on this sit e she claims a differ and tyis time she is 36 years old.. shes using all the same pix . ladies if you want a guy to be trusting, and caring yiu have to actuall do the same. ive sincecthen have removed said woman from my friend list. i dont appreciate cons and frauds.

[susanlb50]

Jessee sometime women put there ages younger on the regular dating sites...not saying its right, but when a women is looking for a younger guy on a regular site she may feel she will get more guys older writing her..

[bayridgebabe]

Jesse, there are all kinds of spammers male & female alike. We just have to go by out gut instincts & hope they are right. Good looking out for all the guys on here.

P.S. I looked @ her profile on here GC & she hasn't been on in over 6 months

[livvy]

Good for you Jesse, just shows that women can be as unscrupulous as the men. Keep up the vigil.

[phil29uk]

Originally Posted by susanlb50

Jessee sometime women put there ages younger on the regular dating sites...not saying its right, but when a women is looking for a younger guy on a regular site she may feel she will get more guys older writing her..

I know you weren't saying it's right, but with respect if a man had done that, he would have been flamed a lot more. If a 40-odd year old man said he was 30-odd to pull a 20 something girl, attitudes would surely be different.

I think common sense comes in to play here, which Jessee obviously has, as he did his research (btw I'm also on plentyoffish).

[sonia]

In truth Jesse there are many women on here who are lying about their age - even though it is a site for ow/ym some women feel that admitting to being 50 or over is somehow going to make the guys lose interest. That may or may not be true but really is there any point in lying? Why be ashamed of your age?

[abergirl]

I don't lie about mine! No point lol and I'm not ashamed of it anyway!

[bayridgebabe]

I definitely don't lie about my age or who I am. My pictures are of "me' & I will be 57 in March. I am proud of who I am, the way I look & how I carry myself too. Remember I'm getting better with age, like a fine wine hehehehe.

[susanlb50]

Well I have no problem telling my age either, in fact, I feel that this type of dating site welcomes older women so why lie...and I was in no way defending that women, I was just trying to say how some women think that they will only get older guys writing them if they have there true age...and phil I agree if it was a guy, and yes it has happened to me that lied about his age I wouldn't be happy about it and I wasn't..

[livvy]

Let's just say I am pushing the sixties at a moderate pace.