21 year old looking for answers about older women

[mrkiind]

okay so i have been with a 32 year old, i wouldnt consider it dating mostly meeting up, having sex than bidding farewells. im 21, so i basically took a shot in the dark with this next woman im talking to too. a 34 year old, recently divorced, with 2 kids. stunningly beautiful. cool as all get out, and finally a mature financially secure female.

so my question is, which i suppose will be a big discussion on this site, seeing as how so many different people will try to help me out on this.

what do they really want? look for? so on so fourth. but i mean in general. not just like one or two things. like multiple things, what do they look for, as in should i be opening doors, pulling chairs out, what should i be discussing? i need to know what most women look for in a whole.

because im suppose to be taking her out next weekend. and i don't want to sit down at dinner and not have a clue what im doing to try to tackle this woman.

i know the age gap might make a difference in a sense of what we would like to do, i might like to do stuff she doesn't. but if anyone can help me out with the question above i would be GREATLY appreciative.


EDIT:!!! also i do have a full time job, i don't live with my parents, i drive. so i figure this is a good start.

[bigglesworth]

The are looking for respect, and as far as topics go, just talk about some of the things that interest you, ask her about her interests, and let the conversation just flow. Since she is not much older than you, it should be relatively easy.

[houstoncougar]

I'm sorry I just don't get these kinds of questions. Do you normally open the door for women? Hold out their chair etc. etc. etc.? If not then no don't do it just because you want to "tackle this woman". Why try and be something you are not it won't stand up to the test of time and your true colors will eventually show through so why disappoint? Yes we want respect but, your best bet is to BE YOURSELF!!!

[lynda]

There ya go the ladies have given you the best advice. Be YOURSELF and RESPECT the woman. Everybody brings something different to the table. Your lady is not that much older so she is really not a cougar but good luck in the date.