Cougar's fantasies

[thisyoungguy85]

So I always hear about guys fantasies to be with cougars and woman in general. I dont typically hear the womans side of this question.

Ladies... spill the beans, whats that ultimate cub fantasy?

[wetnwild]

Having them actually show up for the date. Oh no wait, I'm getting this confused with REALITY. That's what we want them to do in reality.

Ok, sorry.

[bayridgebabe]

Originally Posted by wetnwild

Having them actually show up for the date. Oh no wait, I'm getting this confused with REALITY. That's what we want them to do in reality.

Ok, sorry.

ROFLMAO wnw, I really shouldn't be laughing should I? Fantasy, reality, no difference cause it's not going to happen either way is it?
We probably have a better chance fantasizing about it.

[houstoncougar]

hehehehehe but you're so right wnw!

[daniel_83]

"Having them actually show up for the date. Oh no wait, I'm getting this confused with REALITY. That's what we want them to do in reality."

So the deal with younger guys not showing up is down to a few reasons; first, when a guy has not been in a relationship for a while whether sexual or not, or whether he gets what he needs out of it, his mind begins to wonder. There's a decent amount of research out there to support that guys will fantasise about scenarios they wouldn't actually take part in when faced with reality. There's an allure of socially taboo practices such as heavy bondage, sleeping with someone twice your age, half your age etc, but actually going through and sustaining the act is a different matter. Most people in a healthy relationship won't go through the motions except for light experimentation. What healthy 25 year old guy would trade in a girl with a firm body and a similar mindset for a 45 year old with two teenage kids? Exactly. However, a 25 year old guy who hasn't dated in a year would look into areas he wouldn't normally delve in to.

So the argument will probably be he wants someone with a mature mindset and that's going to be in an older woman. Horse****.

The reason guys don't post their profile pic up on dating sites are because they aren't confident in what they are doing. Guys like testing the water, going through the motions, probably jack off to your pic, but they won't go through with it because lets face it, going out with a woman twice your age with saggy boobs and 2 kids isn't normal when he can have threesomes with two chicks in a jacuzzi at a frat party.

Sorry to burst the bubble.

Much love, keep living the dream. Literally.

[redfyre]

Why do I suspect that if you had the opportunity to participate in a threesome at a frat party, you wouldn't be posting inflammatory posts here? Could it be that you are the one dreaming?

[tiffanyfontaine]

I'm confused by you, daniel_83.

Why would youngguy come on a site like this to ask cougars about their fantasies if he secretly had such disdain for cougars or women over 45?

Your generalizations about what an older woman is are way off base. Not all seasoned females are as you describe. Most of the women I know who are 45 or over have much better bodies than many younger women I see. Also, most of my friends over 45, don't have kids or the few who do have only one. And even if a women has two teenage kids, why does that make her somehow undesirable to a younger man?

If you are responding to the posts by the women on this thread that younger men don't always show up, I'm sure there are several reasons a guy might not show up for a date. Also, not all young men pursue older women because they have an "unhealthy" fascination with kinky, "taboo" experimentation. The younger men I have set up dates with have all shown up, by the way. All were in the 25-28 area, all had dated quite a lot in the last year and seemed eager to continue dating and getting to know me.

You're showing your immaturity and inexperience, daniel_83.

[jamesford101]

The only way this douchebag could ever have a threesome in a jacuzzi was if he used 1)massive amounts of booze 2)slipped the two women a roofie or 3) put rohypnol in their drinks.

I'm a younger guy and never once have I ever turned down a date with an older woman. I've been lucky enough to be with a couple of women in their late thirties and early fourties and the difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old is amazing. Not just her sexual prowess, but older women are more interesting, sweeter, intelligent and much less narcisistic than their younger counterparts.

I would happily date all the lovely ladies on this forum but unforunately most of 'em live in the US & I live in Australia

[bigglesworth]

If the only reason a guy would go out with us is for a wham ban thank you man, then he can have the 2 younger chicks in the jacuzzi, he's obviously not worth our time, is he? How shallow and immature can you be? We may not bring great bodies to the table, but we sure as he** bring a lot more from the inside that young chicks can. You loose!

[red_star1979]

Originally Posted by daniel_83

Guys like testing the water, going through the motions, probably jack off to your pic, but they won't go through with it because lets face it, going out with a woman twice your age with saggy boobs and 2 kids isn't normal when he can have threesomes with two chicks in a jacuzzi at a frat party.

How about a foursome with a woman twice your age and her two hot daughters? Just putting that idea out there.