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Old 11-13-2010, 09:53 PM
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Is it ok to flirt with people if your in a relationship?
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Old 11-13-2010, 09:54 PM
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Old 11-13-2010, 10:15 PM
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True flirting is a highly skilled art. The important thing is to remember that it means nothing, implies nothing, promises nothing. Problems only start when someone assumes it means something.
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Old 11-13-2010, 10:48 PM
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Yes. It's okay to flirt. Flirting is an art and is part of what makes life interesting. It's a social skill.
But, since it's an art, it does take some practice so that flirting doesn't tip over into seduction or harassment.

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I agree with all the above, there is an art to it so that it doesn't soil your relationship and cause you any heat that you don't want to handle.
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Well I have been accused of flirting more than once by more than one person.

Like I reminded my ex... I came here with you I intend to leave here with you.

Now for me it would be flash a smile make a couple of joke and look them in the eye.
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Old 11-14-2010, 04:54 AM
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No flirting is not appropriate if you are in a relationship and are out with that person. It may be an art but, it is disrespectful to the person you are with.
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Old 11-14-2010, 05:31 AM
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True flirting is a highly skilled art. The important thing is to remember that it means nothing, implies nothing, promises nothing. Problems only start when someone assumes it means something.
Totally agree !
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Old 11-14-2010, 07:57 AM
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No flirting is not appropriate if you are in a relationship and are out with that person. It may be an art but, it is disrespectful to the person you are with.

I gotta agree with you on this Houston! i personally wouldnt want to date a girl that is giving another man ' flirtatious attention' sorry call me old fashioned but disrespectful is the exact right word to use!
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Old 11-14-2010, 10:01 AM
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I think flirting with someone else when in a relationship is a dangerous game. Even if you think it means and promises nothing, I wouldn't like to be standing there and watching that happen...
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