How should a younger guy approach you if he's attracted to you and likes you?

[sleo10]

What's the best way to get a good response from an older woman? I have a good idea she's attracted to me in my case, but I'm not 100% sure. Do older women, cougars, just want sex or do they want a relationship? Whatever she wants how can I approach her? I want a relationship with the one I have my eyes on but if she just wants sex, I'm down. How can I figure out what she feels inside and if she has feelings for me? It's not illegal for us to be more than friends but it's somewhat unethical in our situation. If you were an older woman or a cougar with kids and a younger guy liked you would you go for it? Would you risk your job by breaking the code of ethics to hook up or be with a younger guy?

[violet]

Define "somewhat unethical". Do you mean like teacher/student?

[sleo10]

Similar to the teacher-student scenario but more like a client than a student.

[sexy_pleasure]

I would totally detour from something that could get me in trouble, especially if that "something" is not a certain situation.
If I didn't have anything to loose it would be a different story, but if its going to cost me my job, my income and my professional reputation? The answer would be NO.
But here is this to you,
If you really care for this woman do your best to not try to get your self or her in trouble. Yes, you can let her know that you like her, and that you are willing to stay away because you care for her and for the job situation of eachother.

[houstoncougar]

ummm this is really a no boner oops I meant no brainer.