How do most cougars feel!

[joshy19]

When your seen in public with someone younger in a sexual manner how do you feel about it?esp. when someone makes fun of the matter?
dinner/ movie/ mall etc..
Personally i think its funny how people go out of there way cause there unhappy and go bother other people!

[susanlb50]

what kind of sexual manner do you mean? holding hands, maybe a kiss here and there..I have never experienced anyone starring or making fun of the situation..and if they do, who cares, wouldn't bother me the least bit..

[rhonda2]

Josh honey- mature women are not seen in public exhibiting any kind of behavior that might be thought of as sexual. Well maybe, one kind of woman would. But certainly none of us here on GC.

[bayridgebabe]

Rhona, sorry to say I think you are wrong. If holding hands of kissing is considered sexual then I disagree with you on those 2 things. Outside of that I have to agree with you Rhonda, you wouldn't see most of us ladies on GC sexually attacking any one. To answer your question joshhy19 I honestly don't give a ratz ass what people think or what they say. If someone was in earshot of my hearing them make a negative comment my response would be "take a picture it last's longer" or "are you jealous that I can get a younger man & you can't" & last but certainly not least "YES a younger men is attracted to me, so what, you obviously have the problem I don't"

[bigglesworth]

I used to get that why are you kissing your mother look. LOL and when we'd go somewhere where we had identify ourselves, someone would invertibley ask are you the mom? Used to irritate the bejeezes out of my young man, but I would just laugh.

[i_sing_4u]

I'm hoping that Joshy means "public displays of affection"...just the normal things people do when they're dating and attracted to each other....kissing, holding hands..a little light groping....LOL I won't say that I've never felt uncomfortable when some teenage girls are whispering and laughing, but inevitably, that's THEIR issue, not mine.

[charliex]

im not big on public affection in general, sometimes i feel i should charge a cover! but you have to understand if youre with a beautiful woman people will stare and talk wether youre kissing or not! same goes for a good looking guy for that matter, i would imagine older women being worse about the dirty looks and immature gestures! jealousy maybe?

[sexy_pleasure]

Originally Posted by i_sing_4u

I'm hoping that Joshy means "public displays of affection"...just the normal things people do when they're dating and attracted to each other....kissing, holding hands..a little light groping....LOL I won't say that I've never felt uncomfortable when some teenage girls are whispering and laughing, but inevitably, that's THEIR issue, not mine.

Me to!!!
Nothiong wrong with that, but could you imagine?
Get in to the public elevator of a Doctors building and encounter your self with a 50 years old woman totally getting it on and getting jiggy with it with a 21 years old guy? !!! LOL

[lynda]

Sexy Pleasure you make me smile

I have never had a problem with showing or receiving public affection to any young man I have been with. It is really nobody's business what he and I do. I have had the looks and I am sure comments but I mark it off to stupid people. If any younger man has a problem being out in public with an older woman then she does not need him.

[houstoncougar]

I was at a bar once with a date and a guy came up to us and started talking to us and asked my date if I was his mom. He looked up at the guy but, before he could reply I laughed and said "no, I'm his date" and the guy replied "oh damn, I was going to ask him if it was ok if I asked you to dance." Which my date then said very emphatically "NO, you can't." Another time some women in a restaurant were giving me and my date some stares which he saw and he smiled at them and waved then leaned over the table and planted a kiss right on my lips. It all depends on the way your date and you handle it.