Looking to meet a cougars...not necessarily date one.

[mattyice91]

This is to all you lovely cougars out there who are interested in younger men in a non-relationship sort of way. I know this is a place were cougars and cubs meet and look for potential relationships and I respect that completely. However, I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm looking to meet older women and see if there is anything "there" to build on. I'm trying to get my name out there and get the interest in mattyice growing. I'm going to bed now so I won't be responding soon, but I hope I can meet some like-minded cougars who want to talk.

[houstoncougar]

Talk about what matty... what we like in bed, what our best physical asset is, what bra size we wear, what our favorite sexual position is, blah blah blah? That's the kind of conversation those that are not looking for relationships usually engage in so a big no thank you from me.

[sexy_pleasure]

Originally Posted by mattyice91

This is to all you lovely cougars out there who are interested in younger men in a non-relationship sort of way. I know this is a place were cougars and cubs meet and look for potential relationships and I respect that completely. However, I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm looking to meet older women and see if there is anything "there" to build on. I'm trying to get my name out there and get the interest in mattyice growing. I'm going to bed now so I won't be responding soon, but I hope I can meet some like-minded cougars who want to talk.

So let me understand this...
You are not looking for a relationship but you are looking to meet older women to see if there is anything "there" to build on ???
Build what???
Do not understand...

[i_sing_4u]

Build what? How do you "build" anything without dating? Chat? Phone? Count me in as confused.

[charliex]

geez help a guy out! im starting to think some ladies have serious guy problems! seriously.

maybe ask a question? see what the guy is about? or is he just a pig that should be treated like one?

im just saying, i didnt notice anything sleezy in his post. you'd have to be digging really hard into what he said to find anything offensive!

it looks like he is just trying to get noticed, ive come to this conclusion because he said "im just trying to get my name out there and build a little interest in mattyice.".

so maybe we could just steer him in the right direction, and let him know theres a section where he can go to introduce himself and let the ladies know what his intentions are. as labeled his intentions are to talk to older women to see if he could actually build a relationship with an older woman.

some women think all guys are just sex driven slobs, which affects their judgement of a guys statement on a dating site.

just saying, not looking to start a war!

[charliex]

oh and fro a cubs perspective, there comes a time where you make the decision. do i want to involve myself with an older woman? its a tough question to ask yourself, especially when popular society says young is beautiful! (any ladies disagree with me, just tell me after youve decided to date someone your own age.) so maybe thats where the guy is at, maybe he wants to hang out here with us for a while to get the feel of it.

or maybe we should just all chase the guy off cuase he is a pervert!

stick around matt, youre from ny so im sure you can handle the insults!

[i_sing_4u]

WTF Charlie? I thought I DID ask questions, and I thought I wasn't rude about it. You need to calm down, cuz as much as I like you, even I am getting annoyed.

[charliex]

what? i coulda swore i mentioned houstons name, shes the one who assumed he was a sleezy guy, ill start quoting people and mentioning people by name from now on.

put yourself in this guys shoes

[sexy_pleasure]

Then again, what a turn off...!
Nobody is insulting this guy! And if you think he needs help to point him in to the right direction?
Me too!!! I need him to point me in to the right direction!

What is it that he wants to build?
Probably built a wall?
Probably built a model car?
Because obviously it is NOT a relationship!

I'm confused ????

[i_sing_4u]

Originally Posted by charliex

what? i coulda swore i mentioned houstons name, shes the one who assumed he was a sleezy guy, ill start quoting people and mentioning people by name from now on.

put yourself in this guys shoes

Charlie, that's why we quote people, because if a name was mentioned, I sure missed it. To the OP, I apologize if I came off as anything but inquisitive.

There is something we ALL need to remember as we jump the gun (pointing at self as well)...that this site is NOT just for those seeking long term relationships, so unless the post was pornographic or violated anyone's civil liberties, we have no right to say our preference is better than another's with slanderous comments.

You can't have an "outside the box" dating site without alternative lifestyles. That is why we are here....or so I thought....because no matter how much we claw, bite, and verbally punch the krap out of each other, we have ONE common bond. We all have a preference, or with some, a curiosity for, dating people who are either much older or much younger than ourselves.

There's plenty to keep ourselves occupied here, so while it's been a long time coming, I'm just gonna enjoy all of you...IF ya don't mind! ;-)