Yep i said it!

[chilledice]

Sorry guys, i have to say that i have not met one person here who i dislike in any way or manner however what i will say is that i have NEVER come across so many arguments, disagreements and just basically a hostile attitude, and this comes from BOTH men and women!


Lets all go in a boxing ring and beat the living daylights out of eachother shall we? because thats how it can feel around here!

I just did not at all expect to find this in an adult grown up forum!

So lets ALL try and get along ok? and put our ' grudges ' in the trash where it belongs!

[bigglesworth]

Well sweetie, I think you have a great idea, there are a lot of people that mentally never grow up, sometimes something traumatic in their lives makes them that way, sometime a sense of entitlement makes them that way and sometimes, they are just born that way. Avoid those that make you uncomfortable and talk to those that make you feel good. I don't see this changing any in the future.

[bayridgebabe]

I love your idea chilled but unfortunately there are SOME people on here who will ALWAYS have to have the "LAST WORD" no matter what the topic may be. I for one am unfortunately to blame for some of the "OLD" disagreements on here. I don't think I was wrong for "having" to defend myself against certain people. If someone is going to take a crack @ me or be disrespectful towards me, you better believe I am going to come right back @ said person male or female. I definitely don't look to start something but I will not let a person take advantage of my good nature. Maybe I should just let it go but sometimes I just can't especially when my good name is being trashed or abused. As you know there are people on this site that happen to think they are above the rest of us & they try to make sure we know it. "Just Saying" how I feel about this.

[madameregi]

Why can't recurrent cases be reviewed and banned temporaily or permanently?

I for one thought we were going to lose Chilled as well as a couple of the well mannered people who inhabit the forums.

It is particuliarly difficult if you still feel or are new & just trying to contribute your two cents.

Lets try to keep those nice people who share their opinions and do something about those who spoil it for the rest of us! Afterall, what good is a forum without loyal members?

Regi

[wetnwild]

Things are a LOT calmer on here than they used to be. I am sure that any long time members would agree with that. Since admin put some new rules into place a few months ago, there have been more infractions given and and a few members have been banned or temporarily banned. It would be nice if we could all get along all of the time, unfortunately I don't think that's possible either. But I have noticed a lot less hostility on here in the past few weeks or so.

[wetnwild]

But then again, one or two members on here love to pick apart every single tiny comment that the mod (in this case ME) makes. It has just been proven again on another thread. And that does get REALLY old, REALLY fast.

[lunamor]

You're very fortunate WW to be able to make these comments without reprisal.

[wetnwild]

Originally Posted by lunamor

You're very fortunate WW to be able to make these comments without reprisal.

I didn't make any comments Luna that any other member is not able to make without "reprisal". There were no personal attacks, I was just pointing somthing out. And YOU are just proving chilled's point right now.

Meanwhile, I have a real date to go and get ready for, so enjoy yourself here while I am enjoying myself in the real world out there. {shaking head at the irony here}

[bayridgebabe]

Originally Posted by wetnwild

I didn't make any comments Luna that any other member is not able to make without "reprisal". There were no personal attacks, I was just pointing somthing out. And YOU are just proving chilled's point right now.

Meanwhile, I have a real date to go and get ready for, so enjoy yourself here while I am enjoying myself in the real world out there. {shaking head at the irony here}

WNW, it doesn't matter what you say, you will ALWAYS be chastised by people on this site. I'm surprised I'm not being attacked again or reported to admin (maybe I am & don't even know it) In my eyes you have said NOTHING wrong with your post, but because it's "you" & some people just have it in for you, you will always get attacked for something, anything, doesn't really matter what it is. Just take it from whom & where it comes from & brush it off.

[sexy_pleasure]

Originally Posted by chilledice

Sorry guys, i have to say that i have not met one person here who i dislike in any way or manner however what i will say is that i have NEVER come across so many arguments, disagreements and just basically a hostile attitude, and this comes from BOTH men and women!


Lets all go in a boxing ring and beat the living daylights out of eachother shall we? because thats how it can feel around here!

I just did not at all expect to find this in an adult grown up forum!

So lets ALL try and get along ok? and put our ' grudges ' in the trash where it belongs!

OK love, you need to make up your mind and tell me what is it?

"Lets all go in a boxing ring and beat the living daylights out of eachother!" Or "Let's ALL try and get along and put our ' grudges ' in the trash where they belong!"

In the mid-time,
Any body wants a hot date? Any body? Hello, hello...!
Of course... j/k