guys how old is too old?

[charliex]

i didnt leave you out ladies! how young is too young?

[phil29uk]

I know it sounds like a cop-out answer, but I judge a woman on her character and personality. If I really like someone, I don't give a thought to age - why let that special person drift away from you on a technicality?

[charliex]

haha cop out! kidding, but really theres gotta be a line? maybe not an age but theres a point where a persons body is, well not that of a sex symbol but of a grandmother!

im from cali so consider me shallow but a woman who honestly thinks she is not sexy is the biggest turnoff ive ever seen! and believe it or not theres women out there who think at their age theyre not sexy! and im not talkin gramas here either!

[phil29uk]

I see your point, but it's hard to put an age on it, for example, a woman can be 60 and look amazing, she can be 60 and look hideous. Just like she can be 21 and look amazing, and she can be 21 and look hideous. So I really wouldn't want to say "I only like women this age..."

[arezzo_sole]

The man has to have at least a little bit of maturity.
He has to be polite and be able to carry a conversation.
I have not meet anyone younger than 24 who fit the area I would consider a match.
Now I will say there is a lot of eye candy out there that is very nice to look at but I am not sure I want to go through all the drama to see if the candy tastes as good as it looks.

[madameregi]

I made an agreement, verbally, with my son a few years back that I couldnt date guys younger than him; whereas he agreed not to date women older than me. Just seems kinda odd if future inlaws are the same age as the child or parent; depending on the case. I tell you, I'm sorely tempted tho by some of the fine young specimens I've found on here..giggles. My son has settled with a women 4 years his junior.

My biggest age gap relationship (thus far) has been 18 years my junior and when his family came to visit, I felt uncomfortable with his mother taking over my home and she was only 1-2 years younger than I. :/

[phil29uk]

Madameregi that's a good sensible deal you have going there.

When I was 23 I was in a relationship with a woman who's son was the same age as me (give or take a month) and it led to all kinds of complications. So I think what you agreed is wise!! It's just not worth the aggravation, is it?

[charliex]

lmao i was with a woman who's neighbors son(she took him in) made her think about those things! its nothing but trouble, not dating someone younger that your son or older than your mother, but just thinking about it and over analyzing everything!

and madame! youre son is only getting older and limiting your options!

[lynda]

Charlie, I have to differ with you because I am 62 and have no problem what so ever attracting someone many years younger. I think it all has to do with attitude, personality, and the ability to carry on a mature conversation with someone much younger. The same goes with a younger man if he does not have a certain maturity level does not make any difference what age he is then it just is not going to work with most older women.

[madameregi]

Thank you, but Charlie, I really don't want to "rob the cradle" so to speak...LOL.

Also I want a long term relationship, possibly marraige one day, so my sons future step father should be a lil older than him. However, Ive found if they are relatively close in age...they get on better as friends & therefore less hassle, jealousy etc. Also helps my son has now moved out with his girlfriend so has his own troubles to concentrate on. He just wants to see his parents happy so would support my choice; within reason, of course.