Why do guys on here want you to...

[twigs1984]

help "improve" themselves, or "show them the way" or "educate" "teach" or whatever it may be?

Just seems strange, I mean i'm not trying to be boastful but i'm erm...lets say talented in the bedroom, and i've got a decent set of commutative skills in my head (I already know my grammar sucks)and relationships are awesome if the gals right. just looks to me some of the guys on here want a collegiate class instead of a honest relationship.

am i wrong?

[rhonda2]

actually I think they are trying to ingratiate themselves with all this "teach me" ****. I may be older than they are but that does not mean I've had more sexual partners and experience than they have had. If anything, I've had less.

But I can overlook a lot- they have to have something to say.

[bigglesworth]

Sounds about right. Inexperienced fellows to the right of the line. I am sure there are some that will accommodate them, but they just sound so desperate. I make you want to go hmmmm..............

[rhonda2]

How very clever. I used a 4 letter expletive beginning with a C in my last post- and it was immediately replaced with ****. How very prim.

[bayridgebabe]

Again, the media's misconception of us (cougars). For some reason young guys think us older women are more than willing to have SEX with them & show them the the ropes. Especially the virgins, they more than anyone else think we will have SEX with just about anyone, especially virgins & are more than willing to show them the way & would do anyone or anything. That is it in a nutshell. Believe me the last one I want to EVER have sex with is a virgin. I am NOT going to be anyone's teacher when it comes to sex.

[wetnwild]

I don't mind teaching someone a few things IF we are already together. I believe that he (whoever he may be) and I can both teach each other a few things. But I agree with Bayridge, I am not about to be anyone's "teacher" just for the simple fact of "teaching" them. And we do seem to get a lot of virgins on here, that are just dying to lose that V-card. I guess they think that sleeping with a cougar is going to make them an instant expert so then they can go out and hook up with the younger chicks and act like they know what they're doing.

[sexy_pleasure]

Originally Posted by wetnwild

I don't mind teaching someone a few things IF we are already together. I believe that he (whoever he may be) and I can both teach each other a few things. But I agree with Bayridge, I am not about to be anyone's "teacher" just for the simple fact of "teaching" them. And we do seem to get a lot of virgins on here, that are just dying to lose that V-card. I guess they think that sleeping with a cougar is going to make them an instant expert so then they can go out and hook up with the younger chicks and act like they know what they're doing.

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[melbmatt]

I don't think it's a case of young male virgins thinking that losing their virginity to older women will make them an expert at all. I think the impression is that girls their own age think virgins are hilarious and/or sad. The (mis)conception is that nobody their own age wants to touch them. I think these guys feel as though older women are more emotionally mature which translates, for them, into more accepting and willing to accommodate their inexperience.

I lost my virginity later than a lot of guys, and that was my view. Of course it's a massive generalisation and it's not how things work at all, but when you're a virgin and you feel you need to lose it because of the way society paints virgins, you'll latch on to whatever stereotypes fit into any kind of possible avenue though which you can move forward. The mature/understanding/patient older woman stereotype is one of these.

[redfyre]

Since I don't believe the first person you have sex with should be the last person you have sex with, then that means sex with a virgin has already put the kiss of death onto any potential relationship. I also think that an older person who wants to have sex with a much younger virgin, regardless of genders involved is somewhat sleazy.

The bottom line, to me, is that I am interested in men, not boys. Age is not a factor, but experience is. There are 35yo men with little or no life experience (including sexual), and men of less than 25 with bucketloads. I want someone who can meet me as an equal, not as supplicant/student/acolyte or whatever they choose to call it.

I am not running a charitable institution or a school, for virgins, or the inexperienced. I have better things to do with my time than to play Pygmalion. I am a real person, with real feelings, and I want to have real relationships with men. If someone is that desperate to improve their sexual experience, then they can always pull out their wallet and find a professional.

[spirit_sh]

welll i think that many and many of the guys who are here (but not all) consider theirselves as very insicure person...or think that they are not able to have a good or romantic covnersation with a woman...well. this kind of person are always searching the woman that acts like a man istead of he..so they prefer the woman that looks really confident, strong, that do the first step. This kind of woman can give the ilusion to this guys that she can teach you everithing...even in the bedroom...so i think that the many guys here are here just for this kind of "cougar stereotype" that is a pretty good bait for the guys that are not too much confident about themselves and prefer that a woman take the command of the couple.
Of course is not a general discussion, there are even a lot of guys that are here not for this reason.