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Old 08-31-2010, 05:16 PM
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If you could turn back time just once and change something would you??? and if so what.......


Ooops forgot to put mine in lmao.......okay hell yea I would......I'd go back to being 18 and go to uni instead of getting married!!! I would have really took the time out to be young and enjoy myself!!! Although I have worked hard since to earn my qualifications and I don't regret having my kids....I regret not enjoying being young and just being sooo eager to GROW UP....cos in the end...I'm still only 18 in my head!!!!
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Old 08-31-2010, 05:22 PM
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If I could turn back time, I would have not been in lust with my first husband, and would have gone on to college to study Art and become a fashion illustrator. There are a lot of little details I would change, but for the most part I have had a really good life so far.
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Old 08-31-2010, 06:27 PM
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I wouldn't change anything because everything that's happened to me has helped shape who I am. I think I mostly dealt with what was in front of me the best way I could.

Oh if I could change anything it would be any involvement in petty, meaningless disputes. In the long-term you see the bigger picture and realise they're not worth the huge blow-up you think they are worth at the time. I've learned the wisdom in keeping quiet where once I would have spoken.
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If I could change anything it would be Halloween night twenty years ago when I let the phone go to voice mail when my husband called us from the hospital. I was hurrying to take my daughter to the mall in her costume to go trick or treating and we were running late. I figured I could call him back later or if it was late I would be going to visit him in the hospital the next day. He died a few hours later and that ringing phone and voice mail still haunts me, I missed my chance to say goodbye.
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Old 09-01-2010, 03:20 AM
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Oh Houston, I am so sorry that had to happen, bless your heart.
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Oh God Houston, that is really sad. I'm so sorry that happened!

If I could change anything I would never have gotten married all those years ago. The ONLY good thing that came out of it was my daughter. But we have been divorced since she was 1 1/2 and she is now almost 18. This means I have gone through 16 1/2 years already of H*ELL with this idiot who never pays child support and has been nothing but a HUGE PAIN in the A$$!!!
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Old 09-02-2010, 05:27 PM
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awwwwwwwww Houston
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Old 09-02-2010, 07:11 PM
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I have been thinking about this a couple of days and there is way to much to wish for if going back in time. I rather agree with Vita that it all has made me the woman I am today. But if I could go back it would be to sit in front of the old wood stove in my mother's kitchen, drinking a glass of iced tea or some of her homebrew (now that would grow hair on your chest) visiting with her, my father, and my brother. All are gone now but the memories never fade.
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Old 09-02-2010, 10:14 PM
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Oh Houston that is such a sad thing to happen
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Old 09-03-2010, 03:46 AM
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11 years ago... I would have stayed put and not proposed instead stayed single.

But I don't regret where I have been or what has happened to get me to this point in my life. I wish booted some people sooner and held on to those that moved out of my life.

Today I can walk proud and tall and be proud and confident in the man I am today.
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