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[wildblue]

Originally Posted by lunamor

See why so many of us are diffident?

diffident? you're gonna have to speak down to my little pea brain level.

[lunamor]

Not knowing a word isn't ignorant, but your remark is - you can find definitions all over the net.

[houstoncougar]

he was not who he said he was at all?

[molisanoii]

Ok let me **EXPLAIN** what happened before all the negativity! I think it's only fair and important to allow the women to also know how some of the women are on this website. I signed up to this site to meet a person I could connect with that had a mature personality. I devote my life to education (Ancient Roman and Greek history) so through many readings and studies I think I matured faster than most people my age (18). THAT being said I signed up for this site, and my inbox started to become swamped with FILTHY disgusting sexual connotations about playing a mother role, or being able to SCOPARE(have sex) like younger women 20 years younger. I decided to give the site a chance but when I woke up the next morning my inbox was swamped AGAIN with filthy comments. I felt disgusting, violated, and like a complete object which goes against EVERYTHING that I was looking for. When I made the comment about hags, it wasn't meant to mean EVERY mature woman but rather referring to those PRECISE individuals who swamped my inbox with disgusting comments. Obviously I would not generalize the wonderful women out there, but the ones who objectified me. I think this site could be potentially useful but I do not have thick enough skin to withstand the dirty slutty inbox messages. Once again I APOLOGIZE to any women who thought I was generalizing EVERY woman, it's not the case, I just had some REAL bad luck on here.

[molisanoii]

Furthermore I am EXACTLY who I said I was, and everything in my profile was truthful including my pictures.

[flymaster]

What does someone need to do to recieve 'dirty, slutty inbox messages' ?

Seriously, sorry to hear your experience !!

S

[molisanoii]

Originally Posted by flymaster

What does someone need to do to recieve 'dirty, slutty inbox messages' ?

Seriously, sorry to hear your experience !!

S

Thanks man, but honestly I didn't do anything, I didn't contact them first with anything, they just went on my profile and randomly sent them, so that's why I was creeped out man. Of course we all have that sexual side to us, but it's not the time or place to do it ESPECIALLY on a first message?! How absurd!!

[flymaster]

Originally Posted by molisanoii

Thanks man, but honestly I didn't do anything, I didn't contact them first with anything, they just went on my profile and randomly sent them, so that's why I was creeped out man. Of course we all have that sexual side to us, but it's not the time or place to do it ESPECIALLY on a first message?! How absurd!!

Interesting. Yes it seems inappropriate in a first message I agree. At least try to get the vibe of someone to check if he's into that sort of talk... I didnt know your profile obviously but well... what sort of pics did you post ?

[molisanoii]

Originally Posted by flymaster

Interesting. Yes it seems inappropriate in a first message I agree. At least try to get the vibe of someone to check if he's into that sort of talk... I didnt know your profile obviously but well... what sort of pics did you post ?

I had no racy photos, they were just normal pictures of myself man it was SO suprising to get those responses! Just creepy man

[flymaster]

Originally Posted by molisanoii

I had no racy photos, they were just normal pictures of myself man it was SO suprising to get those responses! Just creepy man

How many different origins ? Real profiles or spam ?