Im sick of the guys on this site!!!

[barbcast]

Yeah it might be some phase or whatever... THREE this week. Top it off I'm moving back to my old area tuesday, and today I sat in the VERY place I met my dear YM who still has my heart... That was very interesting, as was hanging out with his former best friend who introduced us orignally.

I stood outside and remembered how wonderful that summer was, but also how frustrating. All these guys on here still can't make me feel even a SLIM glimmer of what I experienced on that same stoop 2 years ago this July.

Oh well, I've met 1 nice one from my area too. One thing I was RUDE to him because 2 others had me in a bad mood that day from being sex hound jerks, but he was so polite and kept saying PLEASE just chat with me a little and you'll see Im nice.

I have been, he's been texting me every day, just asked me if I could send him a pic to fall asleep to. He lives here so the cyber thing isnt even what he wants it for, I already told him I would meet him IRL and he's asked a few times, he has a cold right now I know its true I talked to him on the phone and heard the coughing and all... but he said he just wanted a pic to sleep beside... He's way too sick to be doing stuff with it, I thought that was cute of him to ask.

I'll probably meet him sometime after I move next week. We've been discussing it.

Miss my brat tho. I've always said once I don't anymore THEN I'll know it's right.

We'll see.

[armando476]

Originally Posted by barbcast

They are either...

A- YM who want only sex with older women and are disgusting about letting you know that.

B- Guys who tell you how much they like you and lead you on THEN bring up the sex, and you just KNOW they are WHACKING OFF while asking, some even LET YOU KNOW OUTRIGHT!!!

C- OLD guys who think they can "convert" you to liking them more. COME ON! If I wanted an old divorced guy I'd be elsewhere!!!

I'm really wondering if ANY young men want a relationship that goes somewhere besides the bed with a woman my age. Seems like that's a myth.

Have ANY of you here had SUCCESS with a LTR with a VYM? Even the one I deal with, and he's a BIG JERK, was treating me better than what I've found here so far... I'm starting to think NO ONE will EVER want me for anything substantial...

Sorry just venting.

LOL Yeah I hear you.... Most of the young guys are immature... However I have come with that experience as well. Most of the cougars that I try to chat with here, they tend to be interested in younger guys just for sex. Then they treat me like if I am like the rest of these guys here. I am so tired of this. I am a virgin so sex is the last thing that I want to do. I am looking for something that could last which seems so hard to find

[valerie]

Armando.....Your naivete is refreshing in a way, but I, like many others, have grown tired of "teaching". And in the future, you shouldn't be in a hurry to rush off to MSN, AIM or Yahoo chat....As I mentioned in my reply to your private message, only scammers or guys who want sex chat do that. And apparently, you didn't read my front page profile, or you'd see that chatting isn't exactly among my priorities....HE is.

Barb....sometimes we have to give a guy the benefit of a doubt. I've had some false starts too in the past, and we at least ended up as friends. But then my current flame didn't start out that way at all....oh wait....I started it! LOL

[armando476]

Originally Posted by valerie

Armando.....Your naivete is refreshing in a way, but I, like many others, have grown tired of "teaching". And in the future, you shouldn't be in a hurry to rush off to MSN, AIM or Yahoo chat....As I mentioned in my reply to your private message, only scammers or guys who want sex chat do that. And apparently, you didn't read my front page profile, or you'd see that chatting isn't exactly among my priorities....HE is.

Barb....sometimes we have to give a guy the benefit of a doubt. I've had some false starts too in the past, and we at least ended up as friends. But then my current flame didn't start out that way at all....oh wait....I started it! LOL

I just wanted a decent chat. I like to chat with people. Isn't this web site for that, to make friends? However, I will not bother you anymore if that is what you want.

[phxgirl1]

Generally the ladies will prefer to pm and chat here before giving out their private chat addy's Armando. You're being a little defensive.

Try asking a woman to chat here using the chat feature on the main site to give a little comfort that if they take it offline you won't begin the sex stuff, which some ladies have already busted you for on other threads.

I'm not attacking you, just trying to give you some constructive advice.

[armando476]

Originally Posted by phxgirl1

Generally the ladies will prefer to pm and chat here before giving out their private chat addy's Armando. You're being a little defensive.

Try asking a woman to chat here using the chat feature on the main site to give a little comfort that if they take it offline you won't begin the sex stuff, which some ladies have already busted you for on other threads.

I'm not attacking you, just trying to give you some constructive advice.

Well I am not being defensive I am just keeping it real. However
Valerie seems to be defensive, not me.. Maybe I should stop coming here if it is like this. I did not know a woman would get defensive just to ask for a chat.. It is just a chat is not like I am asking women to have one night stands or asking for her address geez.

[phxgirl1]

Not sure what you mean by keeping it real but...

Maybe you should stop coming here Armando for awhile again, because you were busted on other threads which you don't seem to acknowledge. Some women have said you wanted to talk about something that made them feel uncomfortable (sex). Sooo, maybe Val just didn't want to deal with it because you already had shown your colors, so to speak.

Take a break buddy, again. Maybe when you grow up you will have something to contribute to a grown up friendship and conversation with a real woman.

[wetnwild]

Come on guys, lighten up. Armando has every right to be here, as we all do. And by keeping it real, I'm sure he meant he was just trying to be himself. Giving his own point of view.

[lycanmaster]

Yes its true that many younger guys want older women to SLEEP with bc in there mind they think o thats all they want.... Cougar Town is something thats says older women want nothing but sex yet a good show means nothing. People can say hey i want a relationship but they dont really, you have to find what they are looking for quickly. Sorry for what happen to you but 1,000 men well boys dont make for the few of the guys out there that are looking for a relationship.

[armando476]

Originally Posted by phxgirl1

Not sure what you mean by keeping it real but...

Maybe you should stop coming here Armando for awhile again, because you were busted on other threads which you don't seem to acknowledge. Some women have said you wanted to talk about something that made them feel uncomfortable (sex). Sooo, maybe Val just didn't want to deal with it because you already had shown your colors, so to speak.

Take a break buddy, again. Maybe when you grow up you will have something to contribute to a grown up friendship and conversation with a real woman.

What are you talking about? do not even go there miss. Sex? Who are you kidding? Thanks for the joke. You made my day. I am a freaking virgin. So tell me what are you talking about. Have you read my profile? Let me guess.... nope. It clearly says that I am not looking for sex and that I do not want sex. It clearly says that I am looking for something serious and that I dont do one night stand.

You are older but you have an immature mind. I never start a conversation about sex. So who are you trying to fool here? HAHAHA you are funny "maybe when you grow up you will have something to contribute to a grown up friendship " Nice try. Maybe when you grow up you will know that in chatting is no harm. Also I think you are confusing me with one of those guys that you chat with, because like I stated above I do not talk about sex. I see that you never had a real man, so I do not blame you to treat other men the same. Poor women that never had real men in their lives.. Maybe I should not argue with you because we are not on the same level.