Im sick of the guys on this site!!!

[phxgirl1]

Barb, Ditto to what all have said.

I have taken myself offline many times when the waves of rudeness gets to be more than I can handle, it does go in waves, cycle of the moon, venus, mars? whatever it is.

But it is nice to have others to compare with as aliasangel said. !!And to vent also!!

I'm in a wave of some rather polite, interesting, nice guys right now, some close to me some not. We'll see how it goes, if that helps you feel any better. Tomorrow could change, who knows?

Chin up Barb!

[susanlb50]

Barb...we all get disgusted sometimes, had 1 yesterday from another site, great looking, hot body, but wanted sex on the first meeting because that was the most important thing to him...well yea it is important to us too, but no way do I sleep with a guy I just met that night and he was so concerned about me being good and pleasing him..oh please, who needs that..so yes there are probably more out there that are only wanting sex, but there are some nice guys, because I have talked to them..as far as long distance, guess we all have to patient about that...

[susanlb50]

just had a guy email me on here and he said...I don't mean to be rude but you are hott and I'm stroking myself right now to your pic...would you like to watch or chat, my email is....omg.. yep they just keep on coming..no pun intended..

[live2be]

Barb - As the doctor suggested, a little patience is the right medicine. The way I look at it, there is hole in my life and everytime, I message, email a woman, I am taking a step to fill it. So at one point the hole is going get filled up and you will find the right person. But you have try filling in the hole and not drop the ball due to frustartion, exasperation, helplessness,anger or self doubt. You will definitely find that one, just keep looking....
and while you are at, why don't you open up your optiions. You might find a new guy whom you least expected to steal your heart and get your pulse ringing.

[chilledice]

Originally Posted by barbcast

They are either...

A- YM who want only sex with older women and are disgusting about letting you know that.

B- Guys who tell you how much they like you and lead you on THEN bring up the sex, and you just KNOW they are WHACKING OFF while asking, some even LET YOU KNOW OUTRIGHT!!!

C- OLD guys who think they can "convert" you to liking them more. COME ON! If I wanted an old divorced guy I'd be elsewhere!!!

I'm really wondering if ANY young men want a relationship that goes somewhere besides the bed with a woman my age. Seems like that's a myth.

Have ANY of you here had SUCCESS with a LTR with a VYM? Even the one I deal with, and he's a BIG JERK, was treating me better than what I've found here so far... I'm starting to think NO ONE will EVER want me for anything substantial...

Sorry just venting.

Ahh hey Barb dont give up hope just yet, there are decent guys out there hon a beautiful woman like you could have any man that she wants, i know it gets a bit tiring coming into contact with young just after sex but like i say dont give up hope just yet , keep your chin up gorgeous xxxx

[wetnwild]

Like the new pic chilled!

Barb, I met a guy on another site and we lasted for 7 months. He is in the military so it was all LD and that created its own set of problems. I guess I got lucky that I met him very shortly after joining the online cougar world. I didn't have a chance to get jaded yet. But there are LOTS of them out who are exactly as you described. It's kind of like....looking for a needle in a haystack.

[sonia]

Hi Susan - I had exactly the same email yesterday. For a second I did consider removing my photos and then I thought why should I? None of them are provocative in any way but sheesh the thought of it is a bit stomach-churning ain't it?? :-o

[valerie]

I know from my own past experience what you must be going through, but I haven't received the kind of communication you're referring to for many months. Like some others, my heart and mind is with a special someone, but I enjoy the virtual company of the ladies AND I have made some valuable friendships with young men on the site. Oh yeah, they do try to get sexy with me, but when they get shot down, that's where the sorting of character begins. The good ones stick around just to talk to me because we have some things in common. I think when you raise the bar a bit, the good guys will stand up to meet the challenge. Expect nothing but the best and that's what you'll get.

[seagreen]

Originally Posted by aliasangel

It is possible but the internet is probably the most challenging way to do it! I've had long term meaningful relationships with younger men up to 20 years younger but I didn't meet them online. I met them in real life and things developed naturally. I think many of the younger ones online are attracted to the fact that they can hide behind their computer screen and behave in ways they would never behave face to face. It's the perfect medium for those that prefer cybersex for whatever reason. I look at the site in the same way Luna does. It's nice to compare notes with other women living the same lifestyle......the pleasant surprises here and there are a bonus. Who knows, one of those surprises might just show up in my area sometime. *__*

Yes, there are plenty of attempts at cybersex manipulation going on. I was surprised at first, but maybe I should not have been...

[lorilee]

Barb, I'm with you this week. I've been very disappointed in the whole scene, not this site. I actually don't expect much here as there are not many guys from Ohio, I'm here for the forums : ) But, I went out with that guys 2 weeks ago and we had a great time. We texted for 2 days, he went for Army training over the weekend, told me not to forget him, then I never heard from him again. I just don't get it and have to admit I'm frustrated. But, I've been here before, I'll be here again, and I'll get over it. Hopefully some day : )