I came to this site because I was hit on a few times at the pool by younger guys after not swimming for over 15 years and was surprised. I wanted to understand why. I went back to teaching (I do translations from home and interpreting in conference booths) and was rather surprised coming back 20 years later that some younger guys were oggling at me for real and some of them meant business! Strange idea to me, but I try to gradually understand the concept. I guess it takes all sorts to make out our world at it is. I refuse to judge or condemn, as I'm no better than anyone else. But I think that on this site, there are different types of cougars I guess.