I like younger thinking guys irrespective of their physiological age. Some young guys are old already in their mindset. I guess it's because I'm playful, young in my thinking that I naturally get attracted by someone with the same mindset whether he's 20, 30 or 40. As regards the devastation due to infidelity I never realised that could even prevent people from making their own families. So sorry for all of you who went through this suffering! My heart is with you, and I hope you'll recover eventually and free yourself of any baggage.