Domesticated....you are too kind, mochamama. Not all but far too many older men have just let themselves go in body and mind. Im 50 and my youngest lover is 27. We had been asked if I was his mother a time or two. I laugh, he gets ****ed. lol With us, it was "pheremones". We were attracted by our similar body size, height and preference for dark hair... and then our common interests in weight lifting, golf and horses, psychological thrillers and literature. He dislikes nightclubs as much as I do but he also has a wide range of music preferences thank goodness cuz I am not listening to head banging metal all the time!! He's met Senators by being with me.......nothing major, just pretty cool. It just clicked and he had less issue with the age gap than I did initally. Im not after my "son". Mr. 27 is a mature (well, for the most part) *wink* young man and we enjoy the many types of connections..... the sex is simply a bonus. Im trying to figure out how he became so mature! <grin>
If I came upon a healthy, vital man my age, I wouldnt discount him for his age. I just dont see any healthy men my age....they must still be hanging out at Woodstock! lol