Dear Cynders:

I'm so happy you have found someone who cherishes
you. Everyone deserves happiness. I have been
having very bad luck with internet dating.
I've joined Match.com and sadly my girlfriend
found her cheating husband
looking for dates. BBpeople, loveandseek and
babyboomer I tried and noticed that people lie
about their ages and photos are not up-to-date.
My photo is up-to-date. I'm honest. I'm full-figured,
love my two cats and will answer questions honestly.
Mostly out of state people respond to my ad, which
is very strange. But I don't feel comfortable
meeting people out of state. I work in a hospital
where my co-worker and I haven't had a solid
vacation in 6 years due to short-staffing. Traveling
isn't an option due to work constraints, but it would
be so nice to meet someone in my area or in Suffolk
County. My friend and I both have trouble meeting
people because Long Island is full of married people.
One of my girlfriends had her heart broken from
a long distance relationship. I'm just suprised on
how the dating scene has changed in seven
years. I'm an honest woman. Oh, well, I'm glad
your friend found love at Match.com. I also pray
that your relationship blossoms like a spring garden,
full of promise, joy and happiness. Thank you for sharing.
I appreciate everyone's wisdom. All I seek is an honest
human being with a heart of gold. I've dated older
men who brag about not paying child support, which
makes me sick to my stomach. I've never had children
but feel they should be provided for and nourished
emotionally no matter what the ex wife did. The
youngest I've ever dated was 38. It's just
a different world. But my question is why do
people lie in the name of love. I respect the
rules of karma. What one gives out, one gets
back. Well, I'd rather give out acts of kindness
than bitter apples. So many bitter apples.
I think the bitter apples need their own country.

Yours truly,
Sabrinaswinter