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Sorry will be serious for a moment.

I do think that its tough knowing what you want and making decisions about future children when you are young yourself.

As a childless woman myself, I can say that one can have a perfectly happy, satisfying, fulfilled life without the presence of children, but it is not for everyone.

Children create a structure to a relationship, sometimes good sometimes bad, but sometimes having choices can be a bad thing too. When there are no actual stakes in the ground, it can be hard to decide where to pitch your tent, or even what style or colour that tent should be.

I do think that if you are open to life's opportunities then the ones that you decide to take could lead you to places you never intended but you adore visiting.

If a young man is convinced that he does want children in the end , then its probably better to avoid going down the path of engaging with women who cannot satisfy that demand. For many of us what started as a light hearted piece of nothing turns into something much more despite our own best efforts.

For those not sure either way, then really the goal should be to find a good partner then deal with whatever the consequences might be.

(All IMHO)