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Originally Posted by 1bzychick  I might see someone 3 or 4 times before I figure out if they are 'right' for me |
I agree that it isn't a cut and dried deal just because you meet and have a date or two or three - and if a guy was seeing someone else at the time, I don't think I'd have anything to say about it (and vice versa). I don't think that makes anyone a "player" at that point in time. To my mind, at this stage "don't ask/don't tell" is the most delicate, most diplomatic and wisest policy!
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Originally Posted by 1bzychick I do think the key is saying what you are looking for up front. |
Here's where I disagree - to me there's nothing more chilling than hearing what someone's looking for up front, often even before actually meeting (or even worse, what they feel they're "entitled" to, God forbid): it smacks too much of someone seeking an actor to fulfill a key role in their personal little drama entitled
"Life As I Expect It To Be" that they've already scripted in their head - ugh!!! RUN!!!